Question Me and my Boyfriend were trying to have sex the other day and my vagina was so tight that he couldn't get his manhood in. and since we are both virgins we didn't know what to do so we just kept trying for awhile but my vagina was just to tight and when he pushed it was painfull so we gave up. I just want to know if u can help us or give us tips on how to loosen me up
Answer You can convince your bf you're ready for sex. You can even convince yourself. The hardest part is often convincing your vagina. If it suspects you are anxious or unsure in any way it will become dry and very tight. If you then try inserting a penis - ouch! Good planning by Mother Nature. It's your own built-in reminder to wait for the right time.
If a girl is relaxed and ready for sex there's no penis in the world that won't fit.
Here's the checklist to convince even the most stubborn of vaginas that you're ready:
• You're 16.
• The bf is someone you really trust and care about.
• The contraception is sorted.
Now spend time getting used to each other. Make sure you feel OK being naked together.
Practice other forms of sex - fingers, mouths, whatever. Only when you're both really ready, have another go. And when you do, go gently and slowly.
Please be assured - your vagina is perfect and things will fit when you're good and ready.
