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hiya, im 18 and am in a steady relationship with my boyfriend, but in the midst of lust we often forget responsibilities. only two months ago i miscarried after only six weeks of pregnancy. i was unsure wether or not to keep it, but my boyfriend was considerate and thoughtful throughout but the decision was made for us. now i have found out i may be pregnant. again. im unsure what to do. i had nobody to talk to hroughout the last time about  feelings etc and know he doesnt want to go over it all again. perhaps abortion is the right answer, but im scared, confused even. i dont know what im particuarly asking sorry but i havent even told my boyfreind and know from previous experiences i have nobody to talk to. i dont even kno where to go for starters. its scary, please help!

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Hi Sarah,

I just found your question in the question pool so not sure if you asked someone specifically or what. But I will do my best to answer you. I'm not a medical doctor so I have to advise you to consult your personal physician. I know a board and a support group that you could go to and get some advice and someone to listen. This can be important in your situation since you said that you have no one to talk to. Please also email me at DCHERYL51@yahoo.com and I will do my best to be there for you. Here are the resources:
http://www.voy.com
http://groups.yahoo.com/group/unplanned_pregnancy_help/
http://www.optionline.org

Write soon!

Sincerely,
Diane Cheryl

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Please email me at CHERYL51@aol.com if I am "maxed out" on questions. I will answer as soon as I can. Please be patient because I get many emails. If I don't answer within a reasonable time, please email me again and put ALLEXPERTS in the subject line of your email. Thanks. Please contact me if you would like information about abortion procedures. What are your questions or concerns about an abortion? I also would be able to help with resources and networking. I can provide insight about emotional and psychological aspects of abortion. I would like to help you with up-to-date info and advice. I haven't had an abortion myself, but have 3 close friends who have experienced abortion and I can relate through them. I can also provide resources if you have experienced any post-abortion problems; medical, psychological, emotional, or spiritual. PRIVATE QUESTIONS ARE WELCOME!

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I have almost 23 years of experience in counseling women in unexpected pregnancy situations. I also provide resources for PASS (Post Abortion Stress Syndrome).

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Illinois Valley Community College (LaSalle-Peru, Illinois), Austin Community College and Travel Agent Degree.
Almost 22 years of on-the-job training onsite at abortion clinics and volunteering at pregnancy resource centers. Sonogram training and Post Abortion Counseling Training. Have done research with hundreds of women for almost 23 years regarding abortion, pregnancy and post-abortion healing.

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