Expert: Diane Cheryl - 2/4/2008

Question
Hi, my name is Lauren

I am 18 years old, and already have a 2 year old son, whos father has never been around. I just found out recently that i am a couple weeks pregnant again, and the father has left me.
My parents know and have learned to accept it.
But i have been putting some serious thought into getting an abortion. I am graduating soon, and I have dreams of going to college, etc.
I also know that I would not be able to care for another child, and give it the life it deserves.
I am also terrified of what another birth would do to my health.
All in all, i think it would be the best option, even thought I have been so against abortion in the past, I've recently had some new light shed onto why people get them done.
If you could please help me with my decision, and give me any advice, it would be greatly appreciated.
Thank you.

Answer
Hi Lauren,

I just found your question in the question pool for anyone to answer.
I hope I will be able to help you. I would refer you to 3 resources. One is a directory of pregnancy resource centers. It is at http://www.optionline.org or 1-800-395-HELP. They are free centers who do pregnancy tests and offer options for pregnancy and assistance.
The next resource is a board where you can ask your question and get answers from others. http://www.voy.com/66018/
The 3rd resource is a yahoo group for unplanned pregnancies http://groups.yahoo.com/group/unplanned_pregnancy_help/

I also am available by email at DCHERYL51@yahoo.com so hope to hear from you soon. I can help you weigh the pros and cons as well as help you with options and assistance.

Diane Cheryl