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HI, MY NAME IS GENNY AND I HAVE A VERY BIG CONCERNE I HAD AN ABORTION WHICH WAS THAT ASPIRATION ONE AND THIS WAS ON NOV.2006 AND ITS ALREADY MAR.2008 AND I HAVE ALWAYS HAD UNPROTECTED SEX WITH MY HUSBAND AND STILL EVEN IF I PLAN TO CONSERVE I DON'T GET PREGNANT I HAVE NO IDEA WHY I HAVE NOT GOTTEN PREGNANT I AM REALLY SCARED I HAVE HAD OTHER FRIENDS THAT HAVE DONE THE SAME PROCEDURE AS ME AND THEY HAVE GOTTEN PREGNANT IN LESS THEN 4 MONTHS CAN YOU PLEASE HELP ME WITH THIS ANSWER NOW I WANT TO HAVE A BABY AND I DON'T WANT TO GET STRESSED OUT I CRY WHEN I WANT TO GET PREGNANT AND I DON'T WANT TO BE STRESSES BECAUSE STRESS IS BAD FOR TRYING TO CONSERVE PLEASE HELP ME ASAP THANK YOU.

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Hi Genny,

Thanks for your question. I'm not a medical professional so I advise you to consult with your own personal physician. In my opinion, it is only 4 months and that is not that long to try for pregnancy. I don't want to hurt your feelings or anything, but may I ask why you had your abortion? You have to try not to get stressed out, like you said, because that is not good for your health or to be relaxed. Do you have any children right now. I wish that you would email me privately at DCHERYL51@yahoo.com and let me know more about you and how else I can help. Hope to hear from you soon.

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Diane Cheryl

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Please email me at CHERYL51@aol.com if I am "maxed out" on questions. I will answer as soon as I can. Please be patient because I get many emails. If I don't answer within a reasonable time, please email me again and put ALLEXPERTS in the subject line of your email. Thanks. Please contact me if you would like information about abortion procedures. What are your questions or concerns about an abortion? I also would be able to help with resources and networking. I can provide insight about emotional and psychological aspects of abortion. I would like to help you with up-to-date info and advice. I haven't had an abortion myself, but have 3 close friends who have experienced abortion and I can relate through them. I can also provide resources if you have experienced any post-abortion problems; medical, psychological, emotional, or spiritual. PRIVATE QUESTIONS ARE WELCOME!

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I have almost 23 years of experience in counseling women in unexpected pregnancy situations. I also provide resources for PASS (Post Abortion Stress Syndrome).

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Illinois Valley Community College (LaSalle-Peru, Illinois), Austin Community College and Travel Agent Degree.
Almost 22 years of on-the-job training onsite at abortion clinics and volunteering at pregnancy resource centers. Sonogram training and Post Abortion Counseling Training. Have done research with hundreds of women for almost 23 years regarding abortion, pregnancy and post-abortion healing.

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