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I had my surgery on May 28th, 2008. Three days after, i had a fever which lasted for one night. I went back the next day and the nurse gave me some methergine pills, because she believed my fever was mainly due to the fever. After taking the pills, i experienced heavy clots and the fever did go away.

Since I started to have sex with my husband after the surgery, i also begin to feel that i am not as 'sensitive' as before during our sexual activities and I was 'dry'. I was hoping things would get better with the recovery from the abortion, but it didn't change.

My first period started on August 1st, which was almost 3 months after the surgery. The period stayed for 12 days.
Two weeks after the period, I had bleeding again. My husband and i just had sex the night before this bleeding and the bleeding only lasted for one day.

I don't know whether the bleeding i just experienced was a short 'period' or a really bleeding. If it is period, why it is so close to my last period and only last for one day. If it is bleeding, does it indicate something wrong, as i shouldn't have bleeding 3 months after the abortion? Does it relate to sex the night before the bleeding?

Sadly enough, on the night i experienced the bleeding, my husband ejaculated in me, as he thought i was having a period to start. However, the bleeding stopped the next day. I am getting so worried that the one day bleeding was not a period but something wrong is happening, and that I could get pregnant again.

Diane, have you heard of people who experienced the same post-abortion problems as I did? For what i have described above, what you would suggest me to do? Thanks!

I don't know whether the short bleeding was period or not. If it is, it was just two weeks since the last one... If it is bleeding, does it relate to the sex the night before?Or is it due to my abortion surgery? But why i still experience bleeding 3 months after the surgery? Does it indicate some infection or other problem?

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Hi Rachel,

I haven't heard of these particular problems. I have heard of problems with not wanting sex as much or some bleeding. I'm concerned that you are having bleeding this length of time after your abortion.
Did you go back to have your post abortion checkup? I would recommend that you go to another doctor or your regular doctor and just have a checkup. See if anything is abnormal. I can't tell you if it's an infection or diagnose you over the internet. Maybe when you consult your doctor, you could also find out if you should take a pregnancy test. Anyway, that's the only thing I can think of to do right now, is consult a doctor. Please email me at DCHERYL51@yahoo.com
I'm concerned about you and would like to keep in touch.

Sincerely,
Diane Cheryl

p.s. Put ALLEXPERTS in the subject line of your email.

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Please email me at CHERYL51@aol.com if I am "maxed out" on questions. I will answer as soon as I can. Please be patient because I get many emails. If I don't answer within a reasonable time, please email me again and put ALLEXPERTS in the subject line of your email. Thanks. Please contact me if you would like information about abortion procedures. What are your questions or concerns about an abortion? I also would be able to help with resources and networking. I can provide insight about emotional and psychological aspects of abortion. I would like to help you with up-to-date info and advice. I haven't had an abortion myself, but have 3 close friends who have experienced abortion and I can relate through them. I can also provide resources if you have experienced any post-abortion problems; medical, psychological, emotional, or spiritual. PRIVATE QUESTIONS ARE WELCOME!

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I have almost 23 years of experience in counseling women in unexpected pregnancy situations. I also provide resources for PASS (Post Abortion Stress Syndrome).

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Illinois Valley Community College (LaSalle-Peru, Illinois), Austin Community College and Travel Agent Degree.
Almost 22 years of on-the-job training onsite at abortion clinics and volunteering at pregnancy resource centers. Sonogram training and Post Abortion Counseling Training. Have done research with hundreds of women for almost 23 years regarding abortion, pregnancy and post-abortion healing.

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