Expert: Shan Yi Sheng - 1/19/2009

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QUESTION: Hi Shan Yi Sheng,

I am an 19 year old unmarried woman, and the possibility of pregnancy in this situation is banned in the UAE. I was going to sleep with my boyfriend on 2 different occasions when in both times, I backed out after getting too close.
I have an irregular period thus I can't figure out if I am late or not and I cant remember when I got my period last. My friends tell me that I got it in the 1st week of December and now this is the 3rd week of January. Him and I were going to have sex on the 3rd of January so basically if I were to get my period then that would've ment that I was ovulating. I heard that there's a chance of getting pregnant from pre-cum or even if sperm is anywhere near the lips of the vagina. I don't know how far my boyfriend inserted his penis, so I really can't figure it out. Also, I can't remember if there was cum or not. I tried a home pregnancy test on the 17th of January and it came out negative. I have some of the signs of pregnancy such as  the sore breasts, the cramps, the heart burn, and I tend to sleep ALOT ( more than usual ).
So far, I didn't get my period.. should I be worried?
Could this mean that I am pregnant? But like we didn't really have sex (I just can't seem to remember what happened that night)

Need help ASAP.


ANSWER: Hi Sandra,

this does not look good to me. The signs of a pregnancy are there.
I fear you should be worried, yes.
Your irregular periods make it unpredictable when you have your ovulation. (normally about 14 days after the first day of the last period). Nature cannot be fooled.
Do the pregtest again, or better : have it done by a medical person.
If its positive, I know you are in danger in that part of the world.
Why not marry that bf asap then ?
In the meantime: take care of yourself.
dr Shan

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QUESTION: I am still too young to get married here.

Is it really possible to get pregnant from what we did? Cause we didn't really have sex, and I doubt he inserted his entire penis inside of my vagina<I am a virgin>(I would've felt something, right?)
I just need a plan incase I am pregnant. I heard something about cytotec? I doubt I can buy it from a pharmacy in this country.. Can you help me with this? I've read alot of threads on this website posted by women from the UAE who have reported the obtaining of cytotec.. Can I contact them somehow to ask them from where they bought it? and if you could guide me on the procedures I would be greatly thankful

Answer
Hi Sandra,
I think you are pregnant.Penis halfway or not. Do not hide your head in the sand like an ostrich in danger does.
In the UAE, sometimes, you can buy Artrotec which is used for rheumatic diseases. They contain Cytotec in the right dosage,
Further have a look at
http://www.womenonwaves.org/set-274-en.html
They can help you to obtain it and explain how to use it.
succes, and do not wait too long !

goodbye for now and take care, no more half penises without condoms !
Dr Shan




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