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QUESTION: hello Ms.Diane, im 20 years old and was prgnant for 2 and half months... i got myself cytotec pills and inserted them vaginally...800mg after evry 12 hrz thrice and i am sure it aborted the baby, because im not married n living in a city where abortion is strictly prohibited i cannot even visit a doctor regarding this matter, it has been over 15 days,i tested my prgnancy through a strip and it gives a positive pregnancy...ive been bleeding since my abortion... im really worried as to why is it giving a positive result!! and also when i inserted a finger into my vagina i can feel a very rigid hole frm which blood and some other brownish sticky substances are being released... i think it is the uterus which has bcum inverted but im not sure if wat im thinking is right or not!! i hope u understand wat im trying to say...please help me out ...please il be extremly greatful to you!! thank you very much...

ANSWER: Hello Sana,

I don't recommend cytotec pills on your own, it's very dangerous. I'm very concerned about you and what you are describing. If you are bleeding excessively, you will have to find a doctor. It's not worth dying over. What would happen if a doctor or anyone found out you had tried to do an abortion? Do you have anyone to talk to? Please email me at DCHERYL51@yahoo.com and I will try to talk more. Perhaps I can connect you with resources if you tell me where you live. I am not a medical doctor.

Sincerely,
Diane Cheryl

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QUESTION: I'm not bleeding excessively... its just very little but more of brownish discharge. I'm keeping my diet full of fruits and healthy food so that i don't get weak or anemic. i have my sister in law to talk to and my fiance. no one else knows about all of this. i also mailed you by the name Sana Butt at your e-mail id.

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Ok, I will look for your email. I would recommend abstaining from sex for a time or until you are married. I don't understand the customs of your country but don't know what country you are in. What else do you plan to do at this point? You might try http://www.heartbeatinternational.org/worldwide_directory.asp
to see if there is a center in your area. I'll talk to you soon by email.

Sincerely,
Diane Cheryl

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Please email me at CHERYL51@aol.com if I am "maxed out" on questions. I will answer as soon as I can. Please be patient because I get many emails. If I don't answer within a reasonable time, please email me again and put ALLEXPERTS in the subject line of your email. Thanks. Please contact me if you would like information about abortion procedures. What are your questions or concerns about an abortion? I also would be able to help with resources and networking. I can provide insight about emotional and psychological aspects of abortion. I would like to help you with up-to-date info and advice. I haven't had an abortion myself, but have 3 close friends who have experienced abortion and I can relate through them. I can also provide resources if you have experienced any post-abortion problems; medical, psychological, emotional, or spiritual. PRIVATE QUESTIONS ARE WELCOME!

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I have almost 23 years of experience in counseling women in unexpected pregnancy situations. I also provide resources for PASS (Post Abortion Stress Syndrome).

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Illinois Valley Community College (LaSalle-Peru, Illinois), Austin Community College and Travel Agent Degree.
Almost 22 years of on-the-job training onsite at abortion clinics and volunteering at pregnancy resource centers. Sonogram training and Post Abortion Counseling Training. Have done research with hundreds of women for almost 23 years regarding abortion, pregnancy and post-abortion healing.

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