Abortion/Worried!!!!

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I don't know how me and my partner could be so careless. I was pregnant and confused and decided to do the medical abortion because I wasn't sure mentally I could handle the after effects of the surgical abortion. I went for a medical abortion on 12/3/08 at 7 1/2 weeks pregnant. I came home and used the pills as the doctor directed and nothing happened. The doctor had given me the injection. According to the doctor I saw, I am a rare case because the medical abortion did not work. I went back on 12/16/08 and they gave me the option of having the surgery. At that point, I just wanted it all to be over with. I decided to go through with the surgical abortion and went back a week later (because I had both procedures, the doctor wanted to keep the original appointment). Everything checked out just fine and the pregnancy test they administered stated that I was not pregnant. However, last night 1/4/09 I had unprotected sex (and still havent recieved my regular period yet..)..I am concerned because the doctor instructed to wait to take my birth control until I get back on my regular cycle. So, I haven't recieved my regular cycle..I had unprotected sex (with the pull-out method)..and as soon as I woke up this morning I went to the pharmacy and bout plan B. I'm just worried and I wanted to know if because I haven't recieved my regular cycle if Plan B will even be effective. Plus, after abortion I know we are pretty much all in the dark of when our regular cycle occurs. I'm pro-choice, but I never thought I would have to get an abortion and I just pray that I will never have to do it again. Help PLEASE! THANKS!!

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Dear Mare,
of course you are worried.
First things first: the medical abortion, promoted by the dealers and resellers, does not work in quite a large percentage. This is very seldom told to the women. So not "very rare" at all.
2.After this "therapy" it might take a long time - up to 3 months - before periods are regular again.
3.The pull out method has an important failure rate. Why not use condoms ?
4.Plan B is never positive the day after you have sex.
5.So I can not give you a better advise than use
 condoms until your period are regular again.
right ?
bests,
dr Shan

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Shan Yi Sheng

Expertise

I know the ins and outs about abortion precedures, the possibilities and problems. Problems concerning contraception after abortion, and complications.

Experience

Since 1968 I have worked as physician in several abortion clinics in Taiwan and also worked in Europe. (Britain, Spain, Germany, the Netherlands and Austria.)

Organizations
NGvA (Netherlands) ISAD (International) NAF (USA)

Publications
"The Finks technique" ( on second trimester abortion.)Monography. Stimezo, Netherlands Co-edited: Nederlands Handboek voor de Abortushulpverlening.

Education/Credentials
MD, University of Taipei. PhD, University of Utrecht

Awards and Honors
Member of Honour (ISAD) Member of Honour NGvA Netherlands

Past/Present Clients
I performed over 120.000 abortions in my live. I speak Mandarin, English, French, Dutch, German,and Spanish.

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