Expert: Diane Cheryl - 1/24/2009

Question
i have this very big problem please help me...i met this guy last november 2008 when my friend introduced me to him, we liked each other and had sex november 22,2008 (im not sure exact date but im sure within that week). But suddenly things change and we separate and no contact at all. On December 2008 i met another guy and i fall inlove again he became my boyfriend and something happend to us on december 12, 2008. I wait until december 15 to have my menstration but i missed a period. After two weeks i noticed some changes in my body and think that i am pregnant. I am afraid because my last period was on november 18,2008. On january 19, 2009 i had my ultrasound confirmed i am pregnant but 9 weeks pregnant. I told this to my boyfriend that i am pregnant but he told me that he cant have a baby, he cant produce a baby coz he tried it so many times to his other girlfriends before, they didn't get pregnant, but still he told me he is not sure and told me if i am he is happy knowing he can have a baby. He told me honestly wen we had sex he tried again if he can realy can have a baby.Then he is happy knowing i am pregnant. But i have this nightmare and doubts if he is realy the father of this baby i have now. I am afraid if my ex is the owner it kills me because i love my boyfriend and i know im not cheating on him. Im not realy sure if this baby belongs to my boyfriend, i want to be honest to him i dont want to give this responsibility to him if this is not realy his. Please help me, i realy dont know what to do. Im so depresss and hopeless.

now im planning to have an abortion. it is still safe to have abortion in 2 months?


Answer
Hi Leza,

Don't think about an abortion right now. We can probably figure out the date of conception so that you will know for sure. Please join our unplanned pregnancy group at http://groups.yahoo.com/group/unplanned_pregnancy_help/
Also, go to http://www.optionline.org and you can find a free pregnancy resource center in your neighborhood. But the most important thing of all is for you to contact me by email.
It's DCHERYL51@yahoo.com so hope to hear from you soon :)