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About Pat G
Expertise
I can help women with the consideration of their decision, and with resources, and I can share my own experiences as the mother of seven and grandmother of six. My approach is to show love and concern, and help women work through the issues, emotional, spiritual, practical. I also help women deal with boyfriend and family issues.

Experience
I have been working with women who are considering abortion for several years. I also work with women who have had abortions. Our family has also experienced adoption, so I can talk about that as well.

Education/Credentials
I am mostly self-taught. I also studied midwifery for awhile. I have spent years doing research on this topic. In fact, I have been doing research and working in this area since the early 1970's. I have been helping women online for a few years, under the guidance of a woman who was formally training in counseling.

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Abortion - suggestion for how to use abortion pills

Expert: Pat G - 10/26/2009

Question
My friend is pregnant(46 days), her last menstrual period is September 12th 2009. she would like to go with abortion, because she has 10 months baby.

Can you please suggest me how to use Mifepristone and Misoprostol and how much dosage.

Answer
Hello, Sri,

Your friend is just about too far along for the pills to work anyway. And both of these medications are very dangerous. Mifepristone is a steroid. They have banned steroids for men, but apparently they don't care enough to ban steroids for women. We aren't considered valuable enough. Misoprostol can kill her, and sometimes it only takes hours or days. She can get an infection that can kill her so fast that doctors in the emergency room don't even have time to diagnose the problem, let alone cure it. Or it can cause her uterus to rupture, or it can cause her to bleed to death. Her baby needs her, so she should never take this kind of chance.

Her children are not too close together. I have two who are only 14 months apart. They were very, very close friends. At night, when I would put the younger one in his crib, his older sister would climb into the crib with him, put her arm around him, and they would sleep that way. This kind of closeness between our children has continued into adulthood. Our children will often live together to share expenses. That's not easy to do, but they make it work.

If your friend has any kind of health problems, there are doctors who will take care of them both. But under no circumstances should she endanger her life, because her older baby needs her. Surgical abortion is also very dangerous, and can also kill her or make her seriously disabled. It can also hurt her future children, or cause her to get breast cancer while she is still fairly young.

Finally, please be aware that I cannot prescribe without getting into trouble for practicing medicine without a license. You are asking me to help you hurt your friend, and I will not do that.

Encourage her not to take these kinds of chances, but instead to protect herself and her baby and stay safe. Let me know how she does.

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