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I HAVE AN UNPROTECTED SEX WITH MY HUSBAND AT 19 DECEMBER 2009 3:00pm AND WE DOES NOT WANT A BABY NOW.
I HAVE TAKEN UNWANTED 72(PLANB) CONTRACEPTIVE PILL BUT I AM STILL IN DILEMA THAT IT WOULD WORK OR NOT I HAVE TAKEN IT 1HR. AFTER THE SEX AND I CANNOT GO FOR A CHECKUP AS IT REQURIES A LOT OF MONEY AND MY ECONOMIC CONDITION IS VERY POOR. ALSO MY IN-LAWS ARE AGAINST ABORTION IF THEY WOULD KNOW I AM PREGNANT THEY WILL NOT ALLOW ME TO DO THAT.
CAN I DO ABORTION THROUGH ANY OTHER PRIVATE WAY(NOT THROUGH SURGERY).
ALSO I M TAKING SOME VITAMINS AND PAINKILLER BECAUSE OF MY LEG INJURY.
PLEASE SUGGEST THE RIGHTWAY.
SO PLEASE HELP ME.
Please REPLY as soon as POSSIBLE.

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Hello,

I cannot recommend any kind of an abortion. It is killing your baby and is also not good for your health. You can have complications, small or large. You could also lose your life from an abortion, the chance is small but there is still a chance. Plus there are many psychological, mental and spiritual problems that sometimes occur after an abortion.

Why would you not want a baby now? I cannot guarantee that the abortion pill will work. Please watch your health as I am concerned about you. Please email me at CHERYL51@aol.com and we can talk more on email. Hope to hear from you soon.

P.S. Is there a pregnancy resource center near you? Perhaps they can give you help or advice.
http://www.optionline.org or call 1-800-395-HELP. Tell them your story and let me know what happens.
Also, you may join our unplanned Pregnancy group for some advice from other women who have been in the same situation as you. http://groups.yahoo.com/group/unplanned_pregnancy_help/

Diane Cheryl

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Please email me at CHERYL51@aol.com if I am "maxed out" on questions. I will answer as soon as I can. Please be patient because I get many emails. If I don't answer within a reasonable time, please email me again and put ALLEXPERTS in the subject line of your email. Thanks. Please contact me if you would like information about abortion procedures. What are your questions or concerns about an abortion? I also would be able to help with resources and networking. I can provide insight about emotional and psychological aspects of abortion. I would like to help you with up-to-date info and advice. I haven't had an abortion myself, but have 3 close friends who have experienced abortion and I can relate through them. I can also provide resources if you have experienced any post-abortion problems; medical, psychological, emotional, or spiritual. PRIVATE QUESTIONS ARE WELCOME!

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I have almost 23 years of experience in counseling women in unexpected pregnancy situations. I also provide resources for PASS (Post Abortion Stress Syndrome).

Education/Credentials
Illinois Valley Community College (LaSalle-Peru, Illinois), Austin Community College and Travel Agent Degree.
Almost 22 years of on-the-job training onsite at abortion clinics and volunteering at pregnancy resource centers. Sonogram training and Post Abortion Counseling Training. Have done research with hundreds of women for almost 23 years regarding abortion, pregnancy and post-abortion healing.

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