AboutPat G Expertise I can help women with the consideration of their decision, and with resources, and I can share my own experiences as the mother of seven and grandmother of six. My approach is to show love and concern, and help women work through the issues, emotional, spiritual, practical. I also help women deal with boyfriend and family issues.
Experience I have been working with women who are considering abortion for several years. I also work with women who have had abortions. Our family has also experienced adoption, so I can talk about that as well.
Education/Credentials I am mostly self-taught. I also studied midwifery for awhile. I have spent years doing research on this topic. In fact, I have been doing research and working in this area since the early 1970's. I have been helping women online for a few years, under the guidance of a woman who was formally training in counseling.
Question is it safe to have anal sex a week after an abortion procedure?
Answer Hello, mrs smith
It's not safe to have anal sex ANY time. Anal sex is the major way nasty sexually transmitted diseases infect the recipient, including HIV. Anal sex causes lots of tiny tears in the anus area, and the lining there is very, very receptive to any kind of transmission of anything through that lining. That's what it is designed for. It is designed for the absorption of substances. Anal sex is probably the MOST dangerous sexual practice. That's why such a high percentage of homosexuals are infected with deadly diseases, probably more than 40%. If your partner/husband is willing to subject you to that risk, you need to have a serious talk with him.
Don't think you can protect yourself with condoms. Condoms don't work. They allow transmission of HIV, and they break.
Your system has been compromised by your abortion. It has been weakened. You will be even more susceptible.
You can get more information about the risks of various diseases here:
Ignore what they say about "unprotected". Condoms offer NO protection, because they break. And you can't guarantee they won't, and it only takes once.
In Africa, HIV is spreading virulently. People are encouraging condom use. But the rate is still skyrocketing. The ONLY country where this is not true is Uganda. They're emphasizing abstinence. The idea of "protected" sex is unconscionable and fraudulent.
And oral sex can also result in nasty infection, so please don't try that, either!
A woman is only fertile 10% of the time during a month, but condoms do not prevent pregnancy. If people use condoms consistently, sooner or later the woman will get pregnant. A woman is susceptible to disease 100% of the time. What are the odds? If you have anal sex, count on contracting nasty diseases. I guess it all depends on how much you value your own health. You deserve better. You deserve a man who will cherish and protect you and knows how to do it.
PLEASE don't do this. Not now, not ever! I can't say that loudly enough.
