Expert: Diane Cheryl - 12/27/2010

Question
hello,it's me lila i am girl of 24 years old and i am newly married.and on last nov 17i got menstruation and that time my husband was in hongkong and i was in nepal and dec 7 i had come hongkong and we had sex and now i missed my period.now 11 days left and after 8 days of missing my period i used home pregnancy check but i god negative...and my question is am i pregnant now????my husband told me that 20 and 21 days after menstruation is safe period no one can be pregnant how could u.and he told me that if i am pregnant that baby is not belongs to him but i didn't have any relation without my husband.and if i got pregnant can i  do abortion???/do you have any abortion pill?????????and after some year or month can i be pregnant after doing abortion.plz suggest me..

Answer
That does not sound good that your husband says this to you. There can be side effects and complications after abortion so I would not recommend that to you. Also, it kills your little boy or girl. Why are you thinking of abortion? Also, you might want to confirm your pregnancy for sure. Perhaps you aren't even pregnant.

Your husband is not right about there being a safe period of time to not get pregnant. A woman can get pregnant at any time, there is no rule about it. All women are different. I would recommend for you to have another pregnancy test and make sure. Go to http://www.heartbeatservices.org and click on the globe in the upper right hand corner.

Also, join this group http://groups.yahoo.com/group/unplanned_pregnancy_help/

Also, email me at CHERYL51@aol.com so we can talk. Hope to hear from you soon.

Diane Cheryl