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I had unprotected with my school boy friend on 19th and 20 of november 2010,went for a test and was confirm that i was three weeks pregrant,yesterday i took eight tablets of cytotec and there was a bleeding,but today the bleeding has stop,what do i do next,does it means abortion has taken place with a day bleeding.thanks,chizoma

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Hello, Chizoma,

To begin with, that's a huge dose of Cytotec! Cytotec is poisonous to pregnant women and can cause a woman to bleed to death. In addition, you could develop a deadly infection that could kill you within hours. It also won't necessarily cause abortion. I don't know where you got the Cytotec, but whoever gave it to you was acting unethically. The manufacturer says it should never be given to a pregnant woman. They don't want to get sued if it kills someone.

If you were to succeed in having an abortion by taking pills, you would then be at much greater risk for breast cancer, auto-immune disease (such as lupus or rheumatoid arthritis), and emotional problems. A woman who has an abortion is eight times as likely to commit suicide as a woman who carries to term.

You deserve better.

What kind of problems are you facing that you would take such a horrible risk with your life? Perhaps I can offer some solutions that will help you decide not to risk your life. Also, there are organizations all over the United States that offer help to pregnant women. To find one near you, please go to this web site:

http://www.optionline.org/

The link to the lists is on the right.

Please take care of yourself. Don't take any more poisons! Let me know how you do, and let me know if there is any way I can help with the problems you face.

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I can help women with the consideration of their decision, and with resources, and I can share my own experiences as the mother of seven and grandmother of eleven. My approach is to show love and concern, and help women work through the issues, emotional, spiritual, practical. I also help women deal with boyfriend and family issues. I am not a doctor, but I have done extensive medical research, so I may be able to help with information. I am female. When you write, if you are or were pregnant, please tell me how far along you were or are, and if you have had an abortion, please tell me what kind. Thank you.

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I have been working with women who are considering abortion for several years. I also work with women who have had abortions. Our family has also experienced adoption, so I can talk about that as well.

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I am mostly self-taught. I also studied midwifery for awhile. I have spent years doing research on this topic. In fact, I have been doing research and working in this area since the early 1970's. I have been helping women online for a few years, under the guidance of a woman who was formally training in counseling.

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