Abortion/abotion

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sir i m having sex with my husband and my last period 10 march and 17 mar i tken 1 mifepristone and 19 mar another one it will abort completly r nt wat 2 do next tell me urgent i dont want  to meet doctor dats y sir reply me urgent please

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Hello, sidda,

Please know that I am female. I am answering questions because I don't want women to get hurt.

Why are you taking these dangerous and powerful medicines? You don't even know if you "need" them or not. Since you are married, why don't you want to accept a baby?

These medications can cause you to bleed to death. It's not worth the risk. Any method of abortion is dangerous, and can kill you, harm you seriously, or harm your future children.

If you are facing some kind of difficulties, please let me know, and I'll see what kind of suggestions I can offer. Let me know what part of India you live in. There is help available in some parts of India. If you simply cannot take care of a baby, you can choose adoption. It's much, much safer for you. Please let me know what happens, and stay safe!

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I can help women with the consideration of their decision, and with resources, and I can share my own experiences as the mother of seven and grandmother of eleven. My approach is to show love and concern, and help women work through the issues, emotional, spiritual, practical. I also help women deal with boyfriend and family issues. I am not a doctor, but I have done extensive medical research, so I may be able to help with information. I am female. When you write, if you are or were pregnant, please tell me how far along you were or are, and if you have had an abortion, please tell me what kind. Thank you.

Experience

I have been working with women who are considering abortion for several years. I also work with women who have had abortions. Our family has also experienced adoption, so I can talk about that as well.

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I am mostly self-taught. I also studied midwifery for awhile. I have spent years doing research on this topic. In fact, I have been doing research and working in this area since the early 1970's. I have been helping women online for a few years, under the guidance of a woman who was formally training in counseling.

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