Expert: Pat G - 5/7/2010

Question
Thanx for your reply,but it was not exactly what i was asking for.Actually the reason of abortion is that,we are not ready yet to take responsibility of any child.Till today i havnt got the bleeding.I told u that i had taken the medication on 12th april,my last menses date was 4th march.now plz let me know the solution of my problem.

Answer
Hello, sonal,

The mere fact that you are not ready for a child right now is a terrible reason for risking your life! In other words, you need some perspective. Few people are ready for a child when the woman first becomes pregnant. By the time the baby is born, most people are ready. There is also help available in some parts of India, to meet your needs so you can be ready. I may be able to find an organization near you that will help you. If it still doesn't seem reasonable to have a child, you can choose adoption. It is much safer.

The fact is, you HAVE (or had) a child. The only question is whether or not you have a living child or a dead one. These pills are very dangerous. There are women bleeding to death in India after taking these pills. They can also cause a deadly infection that can kill a woman within hours. They can cause a woman to get breast cancer. 1/4 of the victims of this type of breast cancer are killed by it. They can cause a woman's uterus to rupture. The manufacturer of one of the pills says a pregnant woman should NEVER take it. The people who market these pills for abortion are totally irresponsible and without honor.

Nobody is going to be able to tell you over the internet why you didn't get the bleeding you expected. You need to go to a doctor to find that out. By now, you should have other symptoms of pregnancy if you are still pregnant. You can let me know about that.

I am answering questions because abortion hurts women. I don't want you to get hurt. I don't help women hurt themselves.

I realize this isn't what you want to hear, but I'm not going to tell you something that violates my integrity. Please take care of yourself and don't take any more chances! Please.