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hi there thanx for your time. i had abortion in 1993 which was not planned. i was fossed by my parents to do it but now i cant leave with the consequences of that, cause right now i want to have a baby badly but i cant. i have gone the gynaes but nothing is happening, i`m so confused and deppressed. my fiance is so supportive but i can now see that he become stressed everytime he sees my periods. please help.
Emily,
I would recommend that you get married and try to relax. It is possible that the abortion could have affected your fertility but sometimes when you get stressed about trying to have a baby, it just alters your normal cycle.
So I suggest getting married. Relax and have a good time with your husband. Then see what happens about a baby. Also, your desire to have a baby could be a side effect from your forced abortion. There is emotional healing that you can find to help you. If you live in the U.S. I can send you a packet of emotional healing material. Please send me your mailing address to CHERYL51@aol.com and I'll send you the info.
Also, email me just so we can talk more.
Sincerely,
Diane Cheryl
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Diane Cheryl
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Please email me at CHERYL51@aol.com if I am "maxed out" on questions. I will answer as soon as I can. Please be patient because I get many emails. If I don't answer within a reasonable time, please email me again and put ALLEXPERTS in the subject line of your email. Thanks. Please contact me if you would like information about abortion procedures. What are your questions or concerns about an abortion? I also would be able to help with resources and networking. I can provide insight about emotional and psychological aspects of abortion. I would like to help you with up-to-date info and advice. I haven't had an abortion myself, but have 3 close friends who have experienced abortion and I can relate through them. I can also provide resources if you have experienced any post-abortion problems; medical, psychological, emotional, or spiritual. PRIVATE QUESTIONS ARE WELCOME!
Experience
I have almost 23 years of experience in counseling women in unexpected pregnancy situations. I also provide resources for PASS (Post
Abortion Stress Syndrome).
Education/Credentials
Illinois Valley Community College (LaSalle-Peru, Illinois), Austin Community College and Travel Agent Degree.
Almost 22 years of on-the-job training onsite at abortion clinics and volunteering at pregnancy resource centers. Sonogram training and Post Abortion Counseling Training. Have done research with hundreds of women for almost 23 years regarding abortion, pregnancy and post-abortion healing.
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