Abortion/pregnancy

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Dear my wife is pregenent since last 2 to 4 weeks  and i m give mtpill today so if it is possible to stop the pregnenecy now.
it is possible to stop pregnency with this medecine.
and how many time taken

Answer
Hello, MJS,

PLEASE do not give your wife those pills! They could KILL her.

They might not even work.

Abortion is very dangerous. There are so many problems it can cause. To begin with, ALL abortions on first pregnancies greatly increase a woman's chance of getting breast cancer. The death rate is one out of four. This type of cancer usually occurs when a woman is still young, such as when she is in her 30's.

Pill abortions are causing women to bleed to death in India. The instructions that are given with the kits can also cause a woman to get toxic shock syndrome. That kills a woman within hours. The manufacturer of one of the pills says a pregnant woman should NEVER take it.

Surgical abortions can cause serious damage to your future children. They can also kill the woman, or cause her to become paralyzed or unable to speak.

Abortions also greatly increase the risk that a woman will commit suicide, and they often destroy the marriage.

So you are asking me to help you hurt your wife. I won't do that. In fact, some of the experts here who actually perform abortions don't even recommend the pills.

You two are married. There is no reason why you shouldn't have a child. If you are facing problems and need help, let me know, and let me know what part of India you live in. I may be able to find help for you.

Your wife deserves your protection. Please protect her! Please let me know how she does.

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I can help women with the consideration of their decision, and with resources, and I can share my own experiences as the mother of seven and grandmother of eleven. My approach is to show love and concern, and help women work through the issues, emotional, spiritual, practical. I also help women deal with boyfriend and family issues. I am not a doctor, but I have done extensive medical research, so I may be able to help with information. I am female. When you write, if you are or were pregnant, please tell me how far along you were or are, and if you have had an abortion, please tell me what kind. Thank you.

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I have been working with women who are considering abortion for several years. I also work with women who have had abortions. Our family has also experienced adoption, so I can talk about that as well.

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I am mostly self-taught. I also studied midwifery for awhile. I have spent years doing research on this topic. In fact, I have been doing research and working in this area since the early 1970's. I have been helping women online for a few years, under the guidance of a woman who was formally training in counseling.

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