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Me and my girlfriend had unprotected sex on 7 of july..her period were due on 25 of july but she missed it..She took a pregnancy test using prega news and tested positive..After that on 12 or 13 of august i gave her a MTP kit and she complained of bleeding and little blood clots discharge and she is still bleeding..I asked her for a gynae visit but she is refusing as she wants this completely confidential.I just want to know now if there is any way to check whether she is still pregnant or not..Will prega news be OK ? And what future complications she can suffer? Should i go to a doctor?
..PLz help

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Deepak,

Many women are dying from excessive and/or extended bleeding. This can cause anemia and sometimes death. You really need to convince her to go to a doctor. Can you go to a doctor or is abortion illegal there? I know she wants to be confidential but when her life is at risk, you must seek medical help. Write back and let me know how she is doing. You should never help or ask a woman to have an abortion, very dangerous. Write back at CHERYL51@aol.com thank you.

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Please email me at CHERYL51@aol.com if I am "maxed out" on questions. I will answer as soon as I can. Please be patient because I get many emails. If I don't answer within a reasonable time, please email me again and put ALLEXPERTS in the subject line of your email. Thanks. Please contact me if you would like information about abortion procedures. What are your questions or concerns about an abortion? I also would be able to help with resources and networking. I can provide insight about emotional and psychological aspects of abortion. I would like to help you with up-to-date info and advice. I haven't had an abortion myself, but have 3 close friends who have experienced abortion and I can relate through them. I can also provide resources if you have experienced any post-abortion problems; medical, psychological, emotional, or spiritual. PRIVATE QUESTIONS ARE WELCOME!

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I have almost 23 years of experience in counseling women in unexpected pregnancy situations. I also provide resources for PASS (Post Abortion Stress Syndrome).

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Illinois Valley Community College (LaSalle-Peru, Illinois), Austin Community College and Travel Agent Degree.
Almost 22 years of on-the-job training onsite at abortion clinics and volunteering at pregnancy resource centers. Sonogram training and Post Abortion Counseling Training. Have done research with hundreds of women for almost 23 years regarding abortion, pregnancy and post-abortion healing.

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