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actually my last L.M.P was 21 sy april 2010,i chk my pregnacy test is was positive.then i doen medicalk abortion on 13th may i started bleeding.then again on 20th june started bleeding.the july 25 was my last l.m.pmy last . i want my L.m.p should come wiyhin a day or two. i cheched pregnacy test and it was negatine.
our ramzan id is going to come before that my L.M.P should come.

pls suggest me the proper medice. and its dosage.

rgrds,
shagufta.

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Hello, shagufta,

Your period should come immediately, if everything is normal. It wouldn't be coming early. It would be coming late. If it isn't, then as you said, you may be pregnant. If you are pregnant, and you leave it alone, you won't have to worry about bleeding during ramzan. If you do have a period during ramzan, you don't have to fast during the days you are bleeding. If you want to fast anyway, I'm sure no one would stop you.

There are several reasons why taking a pill to bring on your period is a very bad idea. These pills are powerful and can do serious harm to a woman's body. I actually tried something similar when I was younger, and it didn't work anyway. You could take a pill, and instead of being finished with bleeding by the beginning of ramzan, you could end up bleeding heavily the whole time. Some women even bleed to death. It's not something to mess with. A person shouldn't be taking pills like that without a doctor's supervision. A decent doctor would never prescribe these pills over the internet. A decent doctor will examine you and take a medical history.

There is another problem, and that is that I am not a doctor. I can't prescribe for you anyway. I would be practicing medicine without a license, and I could get into a lot of trouble.

If the problem is that you are pregnant, and you don't want to be, or you are afraid of what your family will do if you are, then you should not take powerful pills to end it. I know you did this once before, and from the sound of things, you were lucky. But these pills CAN kill a woman. It's not worth the risk.

If you are pregnant, I recommend you go to another part of India and stay there until your baby is born. You can give your baby up for adoption. There is a home that will let you stay during your pregnancy. Here is how you can get in touch with them:

St Michael's Home
Indiranagar
Bangalore  560 035
India
Phone:    542811

There are some other organizations that can also help.

Please leave your body alone and stay safe. Let me know how you do, and feel free to write back any time.

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I can help women with the consideration of their decision, and with resources, and I can share my own experiences as the mother of seven and grandmother of eleven. My approach is to show love and concern, and help women work through the issues, emotional, spiritual, practical. I also help women deal with boyfriend and family issues. I am not a doctor, but I have done extensive medical research, so I may be able to help with information. I am female. When you write, if you are or were pregnant, please tell me how far along you were or are, and if you have had an abortion, please tell me what kind. Thank you.

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I have been working with women who are considering abortion for several years. I also work with women who have had abortions. Our family has also experienced adoption, so I can talk about that as well.

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I am mostly self-taught. I also studied midwifery for awhile. I have spent years doing research on this topic. In fact, I have been doing research and working in this area since the early 1970's. I have been helping women online for a few years, under the guidance of a woman who was formally training in counseling.

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