Expert: Pat G - 9/4/2010

Question
may be your's suggestion is good for everyone...but what about that medicine which all companies are selling like vegetable...why the medi.. are in the market...i accept all the things what u r telling but she don't have any other way...she is unmarr...she dont want to give birth...in fact only 4 person is knowing that she is pregnent...if any family member will hear this they will kill her..and ur talking about another home for birth...i think she will love to suicide....she live in kanpur (uttar pradesh) india..and yes plz tell me how to use prega news...or to confirm that is is really pregnent...

Answer
Hello, Uxr,

These drugs are on the market largely because the companies want to make money, and these drugs sell. They don't care whether women die. I realize that being unmarried is a problem. And I also think it is possible her family would kill her, especially if her family is Muslim. As for suicide, women are more likely to commit suicide if they have an abortion than if they stay pregnant, about eight times more likely.

I haven't used prega news, so I can't tell you. Most pregnancy tests will tell by the time a woman is between 5 and 6 weeks from her last menstrual period.

Here is an organization near her. She should contact them, and talk to them, and see what her options are.

Catholic Hospital Association
Ashok Pl
New Delhi  110 001
India

Here is a place she may be able to stay, until her baby is born. If she then puts her child up for adoption, she can go back home and she doesn't have to reveal her pregnancy to anyone she doesn't want to.

St Michael's Home
Indiranagar
Bangalore  560 035
India
Phone:    542811

Keep in mind, however, that if she has a complication from the drugs, people WILL find out. Does she even have the money to pay for the medical care she would need? Remember, some of these complications can seriously, seriously injure a woman, or even kill her.

I realize this isn't what you want to hear, but I care enough about her that I will not recommend something that harmful. Please take care of her. Help her find a better answer. I will be here anytime you need to talk.