Expert: Pat G - 9/8/2010

Question
I took an abortion Pill about 3 weeks ago when I was 7 weeks when I went back to see if everything cleared they told me that no at that time I was 9 weeks. I dont know what I should do I really honestly dont want to go through the surgery but i am also scared of the outcome. I do want to keep the baby I feel like if God wants me to have it because if he didnt then it would of died but i am honestly scared and not sure. I am 10 weeks pregnant and I just want to know if I am doing the right thing in keeping it so please if you can help me on this....

Answer
Hello, maggie,

When a woman takes the abortion pill that late, it is not likely to do anything. The reason is that the way the pill works is to cut off the mother's supply of progesterone, and by 7 weeks, the baby is making enough to take its place. God wanted you to have a baby in the first place, so He gave you one. I learned this especially when one of our sons fathered a baby by a woman he's not married to. The change in his outlook and his life is wonderful to behold. He is determined to be a good father, loves his daughter dearly, and wants to make sure his life is what it needs to be. Quite often, God will give a woman a child because He wants to offer that same opportunity.

It is unlikely the pill has caused any problems. Don't be afraid to carry your baby and give birth. I am here for you any time you have any questions. Please know that it is common for women to worry about their babies being all right. It doesn't matter whether the mother did anything or if she is just worried in general. Since we can't see our babies before birth, we tend to worry. Take it easy. You both should be fine. If there are any problems, the doctor will let you know. Get good prenatal care, and take your prenatal vitamins.

Since I have raised seven children, I can answer questions about that as well.

Please take care of both of you, and keep in touch. I am looking forward to seeing a picture. :)