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Hi,(Before I explain I would like you to know that I didn't want to do this to begin with, I was convinced to eventually because of many points that were made along with other things) I had a medical abortion done on December 14, 2010. I was 6 weeks and 4 days. I took the 4 tables and started bleeding and cramping about an hour after. I passed large blood clots, and continued bleeding for about 3 1/2 weeks. A very personal matter came up the week of my scheduled check up so I did not go to it. I didn't feel pregnant so I decided not to schedule another one. About 3 weeks after the procedure I was still bleeding pretty heavy but not cramping. One day I had a sudden pain that came and felt like bad cramps but was spreading into my side it lasted for 3 hours. I took Pain killers they gave me but it didn't help. Today is January 21,2011 and I still haven't started my period. I have light blood when I wipe after using the bathroom and a positive pregnancy test, but i don't have any symptoms of pregnancy that I had prior to the procedure. Does this mean that the medical procedure failed? If so is there any way that I could keep the baby. Would it have health problems or deformities? What should I do?
Thank you greatly for your time and knowledge
~Scared and Confused~

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Dear Amanda,

Thanks for sharing your story. Has anything further happened? I would like to know so that I can further advice you. I'm sorry to hear that you didn't want to have the abortion. Let me know if you are still pregnant or feel that you don't have your baby anymore. I hope you are ok because I know bleeding can be dangerous.

You can email me privately at CHERYL51@aol.com and put ALLEXPERTS in the subject line of your email.

Sincerely,
Diane Cheryl

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Please email me at CHERYL51@aol.com if I am "maxed out" on questions. I will answer as soon as I can. Please be patient because I get many emails. If I don't answer within a reasonable time, please email me again and put ALLEXPERTS in the subject line of your email. Thanks. Please contact me if you would like information about abortion procedures. What are your questions or concerns about an abortion? I also would be able to help with resources and networking. I can provide insight about emotional and psychological aspects of abortion. I would like to help you with up-to-date info and advice. I haven't had an abortion myself, but have 3 close friends who have experienced abortion and I can relate through them. I can also provide resources if you have experienced any post-abortion problems; medical, psychological, emotional, or spiritual. PRIVATE QUESTIONS ARE WELCOME!

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I have almost 23 years of experience in counseling women in unexpected pregnancy situations. I also provide resources for PASS (Post Abortion Stress Syndrome).

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Illinois Valley Community College (LaSalle-Peru, Illinois), Austin Community College and Travel Agent Degree.
Almost 22 years of on-the-job training onsite at abortion clinics and volunteering at pregnancy resource centers. Sonogram training and Post Abortion Counseling Training. Have done research with hundreds of women for almost 23 years regarding abortion, pregnancy and post-abortion healing.

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