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I found out I was pregnant when I was six weeks and one day pregnant. I had an ultrasound and a subchorionic haematoma was noted. My partner and I decided that we weren't ready & decided that a termination was our best option. As I live in a remote area of Australia I was referred to a clinic 800km away. At the consultation I was told that I was 10.5 weeks pregnant and at the time of the termination I would be 11.5 weeks.
On the day of the termination I was given pills to control any bleeding but I threw them up. I wasn't given any more. After the surgical abortion was performed I was given some documents. I was visibly pregnant, but I had no idea that I was 13 weeks pregnant, not 11.5. I was only informed after the procedure was completed.
I had large blood clots and pain, but I expected that and the bleeding stopped after a week. About 10 days after the procedure my partner and I were having sex, clear fluid gushed out of me onto the floor although it had never happened before I thought it may be from sex. About an hour or two afterwards, I was bleeding in huge amounts the blood was a bright red. There was so much blood I was so scared.
Is this normal or had the procedure not been performed properly?

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Tamijaine,

How is your health at this time? I hope you are ok and did seek medical help. I don't recommend abortion because there can be side effects and risks. So I hope you are ok. You can email me at CHERYL51@aol.com and put ALLEXPERTS in the subject line of your email.

There are also possible mental, emotional and spiritual risks after abortion so please let me know if I can help you with any of this. I provide free post abortion counseling.

Hope to hear from you soon.

Diane Cheryl

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Please email me at CHERYL51@aol.com if I am "maxed out" on questions. I will answer as soon as I can. Please be patient because I get many emails. If I don't answer within a reasonable time, please email me again and put ALLEXPERTS in the subject line of your email. Thanks. Please contact me if you would like information about abortion procedures. What are your questions or concerns about an abortion? I also would be able to help with resources and networking. I can provide insight about emotional and psychological aspects of abortion. I would like to help you with up-to-date info and advice. I haven't had an abortion myself, but have 3 close friends who have experienced abortion and I can relate through them. I can also provide resources if you have experienced any post-abortion problems; medical, psychological, emotional, or spiritual. PRIVATE QUESTIONS ARE WELCOME!

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I have almost 23 years of experience in counseling women in unexpected pregnancy situations. I also provide resources for PASS (Post Abortion Stress Syndrome).

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Illinois Valley Community College (LaSalle-Peru, Illinois), Austin Community College and Travel Agent Degree.
Almost 22 years of on-the-job training onsite at abortion clinics and volunteering at pregnancy resource centers. Sonogram training and Post Abortion Counseling Training. Have done research with hundreds of women for almost 23 years regarding abortion, pregnancy and post-abortion healing.

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