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I had sex before the two weeks after my abortion............ I've been trying to have a baby since is there any possible way I could of messed my body up, you know made myself fertile??? I mean that was my 3rd one so it wasn't hard for me to get pregnant until I did what I wasn't suppose to do now I been trying and cant get pregnant... Whats wrong with me??

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Hello, Katrina,

With three abortions, you sure did mess up your body! One abortion will do it. A woman who has three surgical abortions only has a 50% chance of ever conceiving another child. At this point, nobody knows what effect pill abortions have on a woman's ability to conceive in the future. But if a woman gets an infection from a pill abortion (very likely), that could prevent her from ever getting pregnant again.

You didn't say what kind of abortions you had.

I can't hold out any hope that you will get pregnant in the future. You will have to wait and see. If you haven't gotten pregnant within a year, you can reasonably go to a doctor to find out why. I don't know what else to tell you. I hope for the best for you. But you have to stop attacking your body this way, because lack of ability to get pregnant is not the only problem you might face. If you have had a surgical abortion, you are also in danger of harm to your future children. Again, nobody knows what a pill abortion will do to a woman's future children.

If you would like to know more about the other risks you face, and some possible remedies. please let me know. Take care.

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I can help women with the consideration of their decision, and with resources, and I can share my own experiences as the mother of seven and grandmother of eleven. My approach is to show love and concern, and help women work through the issues, emotional, spiritual, practical. I also help women deal with boyfriend and family issues. I am not a doctor, but I have done extensive medical research, so I may be able to help with information. I am female. When you write, if you are or were pregnant, please tell me how far along you were or are, and if you have had an abortion, please tell me what kind. Thank you.

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I have been working with women who are considering abortion for several years. I also work with women who have had abortions. Our family has also experienced adoption, so I can talk about that as well.

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I am mostly self-taught. I also studied midwifery for awhile. I have spent years doing research on this topic. In fact, I have been doing research and working in this area since the early 1970's. I have been helping women online for a few years, under the guidance of a woman who was formally training in counseling.

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