Expert: Pat G - 5/5/2011

Question
Hello i have just found out I'm pregnant at the age of 18 and believe I'm to young to have a child. I really don't know much about abortion and I'm worried about hurting the baby. Any information about abortion will be helpful, i just need to know to set my mind at rest.
thank you Katie

Answer
Hello, Katie,

I'm not clear on the reason why you think you are too young to have a child. You have been physically able to bear a child for several years. If you mean you are not emotionally ready, or you have financial problems, or something like that, there is help available for you. There are organizations in UK that help women in your position. To find one near you, go to this web site:

http://www.optionline.org/

Abortion is very dangerous for the mother, and can kill her or leave her seriously harmed. The purpose of abortion is to kill the baby, so of course, it should be said it will hurt the baby. It's not a pleasant way to die, either. I have talked to many, many women who have discovered that having an abortion does not set a woman's mind at rest. Most women regret it for the rest of their lives. Many cannot even talk about it.

I hope you will find a better choice, one you can live with. There are many, many women who have had babies at 18, and have made good mothers. You can, too. Your baby is depending on you for your protection. You are the only person who can protect your baby. I will be here for you. Please let me know how things go. Take care, and stay safe!