Hi my name is Jonah i had abortion 10days ago. so thats 1 week and 3 days. I never had any intercourse. My question is do I still have to wait at least 2-3 weeks and have follow up check up after the surgery. Before me and my fiance can have sex. After they do my surgery, i never bleed, i only feel cramps for a week, my breast is now back to normal. Actually i never had hormones when i was pregnant, i never feel nusuea, trowing up, food craving, in short I was normal. And also is it not safe for me to have sex before 2weeks? i will wait for your responce before I do anything risky.

Jonah, Are you saying that you didn't have intercourse after your abortion? I didn't quite understand. Yes, you should have a checkup. It is necessary for your health and recovery. Yes, you should wait for sex. Let me know how you are doing. I would like you to email me at CHERYL51@aol.com
Please put ALLEXPERTS in the subject line of your email. I will be awaiting your response.

Diane Cheryl
P.S. if you have any emotional or psychological problems after your abortion, please let me know. I provide free post abortion healing counseling.


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Please email me at CHERYL51@aol.com if I am "maxed out" on questions. I will answer as soon as I can. Please be patient because I get many emails. If I don't answer within a reasonable time, please email me again and put ALLEXPERTS in the subject line of your email. Thanks. Please contact me if you would like information about abortion procedures. What are your questions or concerns about an abortion? I also would be able to help with resources and networking. I can provide insight about emotional and psychological aspects of abortion. I would like to help you with up-to-date info and advice. I haven't had an abortion myself, but have 3 close friends who have experienced abortion and I can relate through them. I can also provide resources if you have experienced any post-abortion problems; medical, psychological, emotional, or spiritual. PRIVATE QUESTIONS ARE WELCOME!


I have almost 25 years of experience in counseling women in unexpected pregnancy situations. I also provide resources for PASS (Post Abortion Stress Syndrome).

Illinois Valley Community College (LaSalle-Peru, Illinois), Austin Community College and Travel Agent Degree.
Almost 25 years of on-the-job training onsite at abortion clinics and volunteering at pregnancy resource centers. Sonogram training and Post Abortion Counseling Training. Have done research with hundreds of women for almost 25 years regarding abortion, pregnancy and post-abortion healing.

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