I had an abortion two 3weeks ago. But yet mens havn't heppened. I am worried. Please what can i do now.

Hello, Tulite aaka megh,

I don't know nearly enough to begin to answer your question. What kind of abortion? How far along were you? Are you counting from your last menstrual period or from the day you think you conceived? Did you take a pregnancy test? What kind of symptoms did you have that indicated you were pregnant? What kind of symptoms did you have at the time of your abortion? What kind of problems are you facing that made abortion seem like a good idea? Please let me know the answers to these questions. Thank you.


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I can help women with the consideration of their decision, and with resources, and I can share my own experiences as the mother of seven and grandmother of eleven. My approach is to show love and concern, and help women work through the issues, emotional, spiritual, practical. I also help women deal with boyfriend and family issues. I am not a doctor, but I have done extensive medical research, so I may be able to help with information. I am female. When you write, if you are or were pregnant, please tell me how far along you were or are, and if you have had an abortion, please tell me what kind. Thank you.


I have been working with women who are considering abortion for several years. I also work with women who have had abortions. Our family has also experienced adoption, so I can talk about that as well.

I am mostly self-taught. I also studied midwifery for awhile. I have spent years doing research on this topic. In fact, I have been doing research and working in this area since the early 1970's. I have been helping women online for a few years, under the guidance of a woman who was formally training in counseling.

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