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hi ive been bledding now for 17b days since,my medical abortion...the problem is i did a secret abortion as in didnt tell my boyfriend who we live with,i feel guilty enough and the thought ofthe abortion is not helping.hes started to get frustrated about not having sex asking me how come my period has lasted forever...so i just blammed it on seriously heavy bad periods...time is tickin and wondering how long it will take to ease off..help pliz

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Hi dear Shantel,
Please read my answer to the question of the lady before you about medical abortions in general.
They are disastrous, and only good for the retailer who makes huge profits from importing them from China and easily steps over the complications and disadvantages. Only extensive lobbying made the FDA allow these pills in the US.
Bloodloss may continue for many days.
Discuss this with the doc that gave those pills to you.
I am sorry, but sex when your uterus is still open is dangerous.
Anyway your bf could use a condom to protect you from infection.
Bleeding will stop, no worry. Be patient and tell your bf to be patient too.
Bests, Dr Shan

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Shan Yi Sheng

Expertise

I know the ins and outs about abortion precedures, the possibilities and problems. Problems concerning contraception after abortion, and complications.

Experience

Since 1968 I have worked as physician in several abortion clinics in Taiwan and also worked in Europe. (Britain, Spain, Germany, the Netherlands and Austria.)

Organizations
NGvA (Netherlands) ISAD (International) NAF (USA)

Publications
"The Finks technique" ( on second trimester abortion.)Monography. Stimezo, Netherlands Co-edited: Nederlands Handboek voor de Abortushulpverlening.

Education/Credentials
MD, University of Taipei. PhD, University of Utrecht

Awards and Honors
Member of Honour (ISAD) Member of Honour NGvA Netherlands

Past/Present Clients
I performed over 120.000 abortions in my live. I speak Mandarin, English, French, Dutch, German,and Spanish.

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