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Diane, Hi. My name is Hilary. I was on the Depo-Provera shot in June I got it June 13th. I was going to go back this Monday August 13th for another one. Well, my doctor suggested that I take a home pregnancy test and then go in to get it. The test was positive. My boyfriend and I can't believe that I got pregnant when I was on the Depo-Provera shot... is this common? Also, Last time I ended my last period was June 19th. I haven't seen my period since and you dont when you are on the Depo-Provera shot so it's hard to tell how far along I am. I want to know if I would be given the abortion pill? Or will I have surgery? And whatever it might be, a couple of my friends that I confide all my trust in told me that they heard/read that after an abortion there is an 80% chance that it will be hard for me to ever get pregnant again. Is this true? Because I want to have children, I am just too young right now to have one and I want to be married or at least engaged before I become pregnant again. Thank you so much.

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Hi Hilary,

Thanks for your question. I've been on vacation so I'm kind of behind on answering emails and questions so I hope you haven't been waiting too long. I will have to do some research about the statistics on future pregnancies after abortion. Yes, it is possible to get pregnant on the depo-provera shot but I wouldn't say it is very common. I can also give you more information about surgical abortion and the abortion pill. Please tell me more about your situation--ages of you and your boyfriend and anything else that might help me to advise you. You may email me at DCHERYL51@yahoo.com to assure that I get your email faster and can respond. Hope to hear from you soon.

Sincerely,
Diane Cheryl
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Please email me at CHERYL51@aol.com if I am "maxed out" on questions. I will answer as soon as I can. Please be patient because I get many emails. If I don't answer within a reasonable time, please email me again and put ALLEXPERTS in the subject line of your email. Thanks. Please contact me if you would like information about abortion procedures. What are your questions or concerns about an abortion? I also would be able to help with resources and networking. I can provide insight about emotional and psychological aspects of abortion. I would like to help you with up-to-date info and advice. I haven't had an abortion myself, but have 3 close friends who have experienced abortion and I can relate through them. I can also provide resources if you have experienced any post-abortion problems; medical, psychological, emotional, or spiritual. PRIVATE QUESTIONS ARE WELCOME!

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I have almost 23 years of experience in counseling women in unexpected pregnancy situations. I also provide resources for PASS (Post Abortion Stress Syndrome).

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Illinois Valley Community College (LaSalle-Peru, Illinois), Austin Community College and Travel Agent Degree.
Almost 22 years of on-the-job training onsite at abortion clinics and volunteering at pregnancy resource centers. Sonogram training and Post Abortion Counseling Training. Have done research with hundreds of women for almost 23 years regarding abortion, pregnancy and post-abortion healing.

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