| Subject | Date Asked | Expert |
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| Verbal abuse | 11/19/2009 | Dr.Sunu Sundar |
Q: please help me with your advice! I'm 27 years old and 4 months pregnant. My husband and I have been ...
A: Regarding the restraining order....I suggest you to decide after consulting a an experienced ...
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| Hurting friend | 11/18/2009 | Eugenia Springer, Ph.D. |
Q: My best friend is in a abusive relationship. He physically and metal abuses her. She has came to me ...
A: Stacy, It is not easy to stand by and watch a loved one make self- defeating decisions. You can ...
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| Verbal abuse | 11/18/2009 | Dr.Sunu Sundar |
Q: please help me with your advice! I'm 27 years old and 4 months pregnant. My husband and I have been ...
A: I understand your situation. I wonder how you 'cooperated' to carry his second child again ...
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| my ex boyfriend | 11/16/2009 | Dr.Sunu Sundar |
Q: hey i hate my ex he used to beat and forced to have sex and now i think i am prego and he wants to ...
A: I understand your situation and the pain you are in. I highly recomend you to share your ...
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| Iraq war PTSD, Alcoholism & family | 11/14/2009 | james52144@earthlink.net |
Q: My bf returned home from iraq early september, he and I dated a 2 years ago and split up because he ...
A: Unfortunately you can't get help for him until he wants it. You need to keep you and your child safe ...
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| new relationship | 11/11/2009 | Eugenia Springer, Ph.D. |
Q: my question is to you: i grew up with an abused father although he would say otherwise,and at the ...
A: Dan, I am not clear on who it is you are being guarded with. You said you recently divorced. Are ...
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| WAKE UP CALL | 11/10/2009 | Azure |
Q: i do not really know where to begin. even though i have been repeatedly told i am indeed a victim ...
A: that was a description of one of the most unhealthy relationships anyone has ever written about; ...
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| wake up | 11/8/2009 | Azure |
Q: My boyfriend and I have been together for 6 months. He was super for the first 3 weeks, no red lags, ...
A: so the real question is, when will you be able to overcome your insecurities and not allow this guy ...
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| Why do I stay | 11/6/2009 | Nafeesah |
Q: After four and a half years, a baby, numerous bruises and countless disrespect, why do I stay in ...
A: Battered women tend to stay because they've been broken down to the degree that the abuser has ...
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| Lacks impulse Control | 11/6/2009 | Eugenia Springer, Ph.D. |
Q: OK Let me start by saying I love my husband and I want our marriage to last a life time. We got ...
A: Amy, are you asking if your husband is over-reacting? No, I do not think he is over-reacting. If ...
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| Control Vs. Oversensitivity | 11/4/2009 | Eugenia Springer, Ph.D. |
Q: I broke up with my boyfriend late last year around the holidays because of the continual emotional ...
A: Nicole, What is important here is not this young man's motivation. Obviously, the person you ...
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| unsure if I am in a potentially dangerous situation | 11/3/2009 | Eugenia Springer, Ph.D. |
Q: He broke up with me at the beginning of September, and since then, has sent me a numerous text ...
A: C, This man is evidently out to control your life, and he starts with playing with your mind. The ...
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| incest | 10/31/2009 | Dr.Sunu Sundar |
Q: I am 22 years old and was involved in an incestuous relationship with my dad from 16-19. The sex ...
A: I am not at all suggesting you to go to church or attend church services.This will never solve ...
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| incest | 10/31/2009 | Dr.Sunu Sundar |
Q: I am 22 years old and was involved in an incestuous relationship with my dad from 16-19. The sex ...
A: I empathize with you. Before I could say anything on this , I wish to know was this consensual ...
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| Drug Addiction | 10/29/2009 | Azure |
Q: My relationship with my now ex-boyfriend began last year. I met him at the gym I workout at, he is a ...
A: your mistake was getting involved, getting him dependent on you (like another drug), instead of ...
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| Abusive Relationship | 10/29/2009 | David Simonsen |
Q: I have been in an abusive relationship for the past 7 years now. I didnt know it in the begining but ...
A: K, He won't change. It seems enough has happened that would have caused change in his life already. ...
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| Rocking & Abusive Marriage | 10/28/2009 | Dr.Sunu Sundar |
Q: I knew my current husband 1 1/2 year ago online after the traumatic death of my father and ...
A: Greetings! I appreciate that you wrote a detailed mail.Kushboo there is hope for a happy future ...
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| Katie | 10/26/2009 | David Simonsen |
Q: I'm 16 and my "best friend" is 15 and she gets mad at me for anything and everything. She is one of ...
A: Charlie, Seriously, are you SO desperate for a friend that you will tolerate this kind of behavior. ...
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| domestic abuse | 10/25/2009 | David Simonsen |
Q: I am a manager at a retail store. an employee comes to me and shows her bruised eye to me. i have ...
A: Edward, I suggest you get as much information about domestic violence and any shelters in the area ...
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| how to get out | 10/21/2009 | Azure |
Q: I'm in an abusive relationship. Married for 20 years with 3 school age kids. Husband has control ...
A: make a plan for leaving, utilize friends/family, talk to the social services branch in your city ...
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| WAKE UP CALL | 10/21/2009 | Azure |
Q: For the best part of 2 years, I have been seeing my boyfriend most weekends, as he lives 60 miles ...
A: it's not about what's goin on with him--suffice it to say he has too many negative traits to count; ...
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| abusive elationship | 10/20/2009 | David Simonsen |
Q: I feel pretty sad and lost wrighting this. My partner and I have been together for ova six years ...
A: Maire, You are stuck in a cyclically abusive relationship. You say you love him, but I would say it ...
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| Is this abusive | 10/16/2009 | David Simonsen |
Q: I married about 10 months ago to a wonderful man at the time, but he seems to have changes so much. ...
A: Heather, This is not normal. If you can get this marriage annulled I would do it now. This is going ...
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| Lying and Marriage | 10/16/2009 | Azure |
Q: I have been married for nearly 11 years to a man that is very hard to figure out. For years I have ...
A: you've pretty much answered your own questions---his lying, most probably cheating, your invading ...
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| My boyfriend is being abused by his mom | 10/15/2009 | Nafeesah |
Q: So my boyfriend is being verbally/physically/emotionally abused by his mom... once she knocked him ...
A: How old is your boyfriend? Never stay quiet about abuse speak up because the worst thing you can do ...
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| My Daughter is with a child abuser | 10/13/2009 | David Simonsen |
Q: My daughter is 25 and the mother of 2 children 1 boy 7 and a 18 month old girl. she has been with a ...
A: Roxanne, You need to call CPS and start making sure you call them every time you suspect abuse. The ...
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| I think my husband is cheating after five years of marrage | 10/13/2009 | Nafeesah |
Q: I have two children with my husband a nine years old girl and seven year old boy , we got married ...
A: If his family is accepting of this kind of behavior it's time to move on because why would you want ...
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| Will things get worse? | 10/12/2009 | Kriss Mitchell, M.Ed, LPC, CRC, CNHP |
Q: I have been with my boyfriend now for 6 months and everything was good for the first couple of ...
A: Although it is always difficult to predict the future, statistically the answer to your question is ...
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| Bad situation? | 10/9/2009 | Kriss Mitchell, M.Ed, LPC, CRC, CNHP |
Q: I have been married to my husband for 3 years and together for 10. we have 2 young kids under 5. I ...
A: I can certainly see that this is a controlled and manipulated environment, which is common with ...
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| blinded by the light | 10/9/2009 | David Simonsen |
Q: I have been married to this man almost 4 years. I am 40 yrs. old. 2 teenagers,boy & girl. kids are ...
A: Rachel, You are married to a drunk and it sounds fairly hopeless. I would suggest you make the best ...
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| I think my husband is cheating after five years of marrage | 10/9/2009 | Azure |
Q: Mr Azure I have two children with my husband a nine years old girl and seven year old boy , we got ...
A: unless you think he's suddenly become a loving, respectful, considerate person, which i doubt, there ...
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| I think my husband is cheating after five years of marrage | 10/8/2009 | Nafeesah |
Q: I have two children with my husband a nine years old girl and seven year old boy , we got married ...
A: Don't let this man blame you for his cheating because it's not your fault he's behaving immaturely ...
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| I think my husband is cheating after five years of marrage | 10/8/2009 | Azure |
Q: Mr Azure I have two children with my husband a nine years old girl and seven year old boy , we got ...
A: so why are you still with this jerk?..and please, don't tell me it's cause u love him...totally ...
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| Abusive Wife ? | 10/7/2009 | Nafeesah |
Q: Help! feel like I'm going crazy... I have been married for ten years, but currently separated, she ...
A: One your family and friends are noble to try and help, but this does not involve them and they need ...
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| Wife's abuse | 10/7/2009 | Kriss Mitchell, M.Ed, LPC, CRC, CNHP |
Q: My wife completely denies that she has been abusive in any way but I feel certain she has been to ...
A: There is definitely something wrong with any type of behavior that includes physical and verbal ...
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| is this abuse | 10/6/2009 | Kriss Mitchell, M.Ed, LPC, CRC, CNHP |
Q: I have been married for 5 years. This is my second marriage. I have a child from my first marriage ...
A: Yes, this is mental and emotional abuse. It is also manipulation and control. This kind of abuse ...
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| Verbally abusive boyfriend | 10/5/2009 | Nafeesah |
Q: I have been living with my boyfriend for over 8 years. Recently, due to terrible gambling habits ...
A: If you got family and friends who'll let you come and stay with them go there at least you'll be ...
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| abusive relationship | 10/2/2009 | David Simonsen |
Q: Can you offer any advice on how to deal with an emotional abusing partner. I can not leave the home ...
A: Danielle, You can't say you can't leave home and then give me an impossible question to answer. Of ...
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| Relationship | 9/29/2009 | james52144@earthlink.net |
Q: i am so confused dont know what to do, it would be off great help, if you all provide me with your ...
A: What you are looking for can only be found within yourself. Only you can love you. Only you can love ...
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| Sad Marriage | 9/28/2009 | David Simonsen |
Q: I have been married to the same person for 12 years. We have had the normal ups and downs. We have ...
A: Bob, I would suggest instead of focusing on loving yourself and nature and all that is spiritual, ...
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