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I know much about abusive relationships as I have some with members of my family. Come to me if you need assistance with your relationship problems.

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Abusive Relationships - Abusive Husband


Expert: Dwayne Anderson - 1/5/2008

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Hi Dwayne,
My husband has a rough past with alcohol. Anytime he drinks he gets very violent. A couple weeks ago, it got really bad. He drank way too much and really whaled on me. Both my eyes were black, my left one was swelled shut for 3 days. My nose was bleeding, my lip was bleeding. My face was completely bruised. I am still with him and he promises to never do it again, but I am having a hard time trusting him. He has done this so many times. I love him, but I need some peace. Please Help.

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alcohol can affect one's actions or judgment. Even if he's beating you under the influence, it's still physical abuse. No one should be abused.

Give him an ultimatum: either he quits drinking and gets some help or you'll end the marriage. Because no one should be a victim.

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