About Francis Hosein Expertise I can answer questions on relationships; marriage, abuse, controlling relationships, successful relationships, codependency, father and daughter relationships,
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Education/Credentials b.a. in psychology, therapist in NLP, degree in chi nei tsang massage.
medium for over twenty years. Tai chi teacher for 27 years.
Question My wife and I have been together for over a year. Her moods changes when my family contacts me, invites us over for weekend or dinner or even them comming over my place. She gets very upset if I ask her that she could (not even should or must) contact them every now and then......she thinks I ask too much from her and I took to my family to gossip about her. I mean this is my wife...why would I get myself in marrying her, if all I'll be doing is talking behind her back? I don't know how to make her understand that I don't have bad intentions nore does my family towards her. She seems to get upset over many pointless matters that mostly is what she puts together in her mind and not so much what others are doing to her. I try to stay cool....I have taken distance from my own imediate family, because I started my own now with her...but I just don't know what is my short comming and what else I can do to have her understand that the world around us is not really as bad as we make it.
Answer Hi Massih, Please this is not about you.
If your wife was married with someone else she would do the same thing.
She does have some issues, some of this is her self-esteem, what does this mean, it means that she does not think much about herself.
Staying from your family is not the answer, it is not healthy for you to do this, because it hurts you.
I would suggest that you get some counseling for your wife,
If this has been a problem all the time, you need help, if this is new it could be hormonal.
Can you meet your family with your wife in a neutral place is she does not feel that too much is ask of her.
Staying calm is not the answer because you are sacrificing yourself and your feeling for the marriage which does not work.
Have limits and respect yourself, put you first to make you happy and not wait on another, and lastly love your wife by first loving the man she married.
Lastly get help your wife has a problem that is coming to the surface now, that has been there before you enter into her life, this does not belong to you.
