About Francis Hosein Expertise I can answer questions on relationships; marriage, abuse, controlling relationships, successful relationships, codependency, father and daughter relationships,
I can answer questions on psychics, mediums, paranormal phenomena.
Experience relationships, psychic readings, setting goals, meditation, tai chi, therapy, yoga, massage. neuro linguistic programming
Education/Credentials b.a. in psychology, therapist in NLP, degree in chi nei tsang massage.
medium for over twenty years. Tai chi teacher for 27 years.
Question QUESTION: I have an abusive boyfriend. He lives in my home and moved 2 hours away from his family to be with me. I have 2 children that he is verbally ugly to. I don't want to lose my children or my family that are nearby. He threatened me if I ever called the police. I called his mother and begged her to come and get him. She had said for him to come back but he refuses to leave. This caused him to threaten me again so I'm scared to ever call her. What should I do?
ANSWER: Hi Stephenie, I am sorry for your difficulty right now.
Can you get away without your boyfriend knowing about it?
It would be your best bet then go to the police and take out a restraining order out on your boyfriend.
Your relationship is pass the place of no return when your boyfriend doesn't respect you and threaten you and the kids.
This threat should not be taken lightly.
Get away without bringing any clothes, such would be that you are going to the dentist or clinic with the kids and leave and seek out places that helps women with abusive relationship.
You can get this information from the operator.
Please do not play with your children's life because you do not know 100% what the other person will do. God Bless.
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QUESTION: The home we live in is in my father's name. If I leave my home, then what am I going to do? He threatened my life if I called the police and I take the threats very seriously and that is why I have not called. He has been taking off in my car when I go to the bathroom. He thought I was leaving one night and grabbed my hand thinking it was my keys in it. I tried to tell him they were my glasses but he wouldn't listen until he broke them. If I run, then what am I going to do about my parents and the rest of my family? My children's father isn't always in their lives but if we run and he finds out why, he'll take my kids from me. I didn't know my boyfriend was like this in the beginning and I don't want to lose my kids because I trusted the wrong person.
Answer Hi Stephenie, There are government agency that specialize in problems such as yours.
There are homes for abusive women.
You need a plan and then you take action.
Your family will be happy for you and as I said call the police, they can make a request to place a police car outside your parents home.
Your job is to have your children safe then deal with your children's father after.
If your boyfriend hurt your children while he is living at your place will things be any different for you with the children;s father.
Are you saying that it is better that things happen to your children quietly so your ex does not take your children?
1.Plan.
2.Call government agency.
3.Go to police and put a restraining order.
4.Call your family and warn them.
