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About Dwayne Anderson
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I know much about abusive relationships as I have some with members of my family. Come to me if you need assistance with your relationship problems.

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Experiencing abusive relationships with family.

 
   

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Abusive Relationships - boyfriend issues


Expert: Dwayne Anderson - 1/18/2008

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I have been with my boyfriend for a year and a half, I have lived with him for a couple months in his parents house and moved out because he was treating me bad. Now we live together in an apartment because things got better and we love eachother so much! He has anger problems so does his dad he has a history of abuse from his parents as a child, and he gets mad at me easily if i piss him off and he cant control himself when mad, like he goes into a rage kind of, like he punched me in the leg once not really hard but he did it when he was mad, and said was a snob so i deserved it. We have a loving realtionship a lot of the time just when he looses his temper he goes nuts, but if hes not mad hes fine and treats me awesome. i said one time i was gona leave him and he said dont expect to leave without getting abused thats a promise. kuz he couldnt handle me leaving... please help!

Answer
some abusers such as your boyfriend have a history of being abused themselves. If he's abusing you, then he's no better than his parents towards him as a child. He shouldn't be hurting you.

He should seek out professional help. That will help more than I ever could. But I can tell you this: no one should ever be a victim of abuse. If he doesn't change his abusive nature, leave this relationship ASAP.

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