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Education/Credentials b.a. in psychology, therapist in NLP, degree in chi nei tsang massage.
medium for over twenty years. Tai chi teacher for 27 years.
Question I have been dating my boyfriend Scott, for the past 3 years on and off. When we started dating I wasnt really into the relationship, I was young so i just dated him because of the fact he was older, drove and he made me feel older....
This time we have dated for about a year now, and I actually started to care about him and i eventually fell in love. He lost his job and hasnt really been looking for another one. me and his mother has been supporting him for the past 3/4 monthes. It was like in the beginning he appreciated what i did for him but now its like he just expects it and if i get the wrong product, he uses it, but complains about it. I live and home with my parents but i usually stay at his house, he lives with his mom, if i want to stay at my house with my parents he says to me "I bet your at home" all sarcatic..so i call him when im home just to avoid the drama. I work in the evenings and i spend alot. almost all of my spare time (besides work) with him. He always thinks theres another guy or i am cheating on him, when i really dont have time because the only time im not with him is when im working. He can be around all his friends, but he only likes one of my friends, my quiet friend who doesnt say much, he doesnt like my best girlfriend, ("because she is jealous, self centered, and always has a motive behind her actions") He always bashes my friends and tells me how they are bad influences,young and so on. and if i hang out with them he acts like he is going to break up with me because "You wanna be with ur friends all the time" when i see them maybe once a week... maybe... and he thinks when i am with my friends i am also with all these guys and am cheating on him. when hes the one who has his ex gf's/other girls contacting him but i am the one cheating. supposidly I have a "thing" with 2 of his friends. if they play fight with me im the one flirting..but he gets mad at me and not at them. I feel like i am walking on egg shells, he makes me feel like if i left it wouldnt matter, and if i dont do something he wants he makes it seem like hes going to break up with me. And when hes in a bad mood, its like hes taking it out on me. He punches walls and drives fast when he is angry. Its like one day its fine and the next its back to the same shit. I love him soo much i dont know what to do. My parents and friends keep telling me that its better if we break up. "hes using me and controlling me and i cant see it" I'm so confused. its like no one understands. we have soo much history i cant just walk. I love him soooo much....
Answer Hi Cat, the question is do you want to do someting about your relationship, are you willing to take a step to break the cycle?
You family has live longer and they may know a thing or two about relationship, they have your best interest, please listen to them.
Respect yourself and put limits to this relationship, the person wants to isolate you to have more control, is that what you want?
You are young and have a lot of time to meet other people, right now you are focusing on your history together, here's a question, with all the time you are with this person is most of the time good or problems, control, jealousy?
Love is here for you, you need to choose is this what you want for your rest of your life, can you see this drama going for another ten years?
Limit your time together, do not spend much time at his place, see your friends on specific days, and walk away when he treats you bad, letting him know that you do not accept to be treated this way.
