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Expert: Nafeesah - 10/5/2008
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i have a bf frm 4 yrs..he had abusive personality..coz he controls me ,isolate me and hits ..abuse me and many more things...nw he had started hitting himself badly...i jst want to know is he curable ..coz if i leave him ..will ever he had normal life...he had only one dream to love and to be loved ..plz help dis man
Answer
I would not count on curing your boyfriend of this because once he's began the cycle of abuse rarely does anyone heal from this. If he's doing this to you it's time to get out of this relationship because it's only going to get worse over time. I would think about your life and the life after him. He'll never have a normal life abusing people and especially those he's in relationships with. Men who witness a lot of abuse or were abused as children and teenagers tend to become abusers themselves and repeating the same cycle. Please get out of this relationship and move on to someone who's not going to isolate you from friends and family and controling you and treating you like you don't matter.
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