Expert: Azure - 10/14/2008

Question
QUESTION: I met my fiance 2yrs ago and we just recenty got engaged.  We were very happy a few months ago thinking that he fianlly found a job that he loved and that he could keep.  Well things didnt go as planned because he longer has that job.  Since i met him he hasnt been able to keep a job.  I am a very hard working women and i just cant take it anymore.  I pay all the bills myself rent, cable electric etc...I tell him that this just isnt going to work because somwhere in the middle all of this crap i just completely feel drained and have given up.  I dont want to be with him anymore and he won't leave.  I've tried everything to make him leave including being uterly down right nasty to him and he just doesnt get it.  All he says is that things will get better and i know in my gut it wont.  He's even threated to kill himself.  What should i do?  I want him gone.

ANSWER: who owns the house, or who's name is the lease in?

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QUESTION: We are both on the lease. Its a month to month lease. Thats all beside the point.  He dosent pay to live here i pay all the bills so therefore he has to leave.

Answer
it's only beside the point if he leaves--you may feel he has to leave, but he hasn't; it's not clear if you've actually TOLD him to leave by a certain date--if not, that's the next step; if he refuses then it's either YOU leaving, or it becomes a legal matter, which will take time and cost money...totally unfair ratings...first off, i'm not female, secondly, based on the sketchy info provided, the answer was right on the money; if your question still wasn't answered, you could have followed up and clarified as to exactly what you were looking for--instead you chose to criticize the "volunteer" taking the time to try and answer your question..