AboutDavid Simonsen Expertise I can answer questions directly related to your challenging relationships. I will give you a straight forward answer to what I think the problem is.
Experience I have the experience needed to help you sort out how to work through your relationship. I meet weekly with people who have challenging relationships so let me help you!
Organizations AAMFT;AACC
Education/Credentials B.A. M.S. Marriage & Family Therapy
Question i am 20 years old i have been dating my boyfriend for 2 years i moved in with him after one year because my mom was emotionally abusive and i could no longer take it. i do miss my family i live 2 miles away from them but i never see them. like once a month he will tell me to go visit them so i do but once im there he calls me every 5 min. literally to see when im coming home. if i go over there without him telling me and i say ill be back in an hour he calls me a liar if i get home in an hour and 10 min. im scared i dont have any friends any more i lost them all becayse they didnt like him and i love him and theey told me that i could have them or him and i dont know what i should do i feel like im still living with my mom i have to ask if i can go somewhere or we will fight for 2 days i dont know how to talk to him and tell him i dont feel safe i have no idea what i have got myself in and i dont want to lose him but i dont want to feel as bad as i have felt lately
Answer Miki,
You simply went from one abusive place to another. Forget about your feelings, they will not save you from being abused. You need to get practical and real with actual behavior. You need to move out on your own. Moving out on your own will allow you to start some personal growth in your life. This personal growth needs to take place in order to start recognizing peoples bad behavior and then staying away from it.
David
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