AboutNafeesah Expertise I can answer just about anything on abusive relationships, but I can't give legal advice on how to get out of one that's something you need to speak with a counselor trained and certified to deal with domestic violence issues to get resources in pursuing legal recourse.
Experience I have been in abusive relationships and I have shared my experience in helping others to get out of these types of relationships. I was in two abusive relationships one lasting nearly 2 years and the other just over 5 years.
Education/Credentials Associates degree, bachelors degree, and I am a certified nursing assistant
Question I am a 17 year old gay man. And i have issues BIG
ISSUES....I AM NOT CURRENTLY ABUSIVE. but i was with my ex
about a year ago....i would beat the crap out of him....and
we broke up a lot because of it....I NEED TO KNOW....how
can i stop my issues....i have really bad paranoia also.
And i'm in a relationship now....And i need to make sure
that it doesn't end up like past one..... I'm very scared
ill start hitting my new man...I am very
paranoid,controlling ALREADY...and i just need your help.
Please....if i need to talk to someone then who?I realize
my problem, and i WANT HELP...are there agression classes
or something? please i really need this....And Im open to
help....Suggestion please?
Answer Yes it's possible to stop what you're doing, but it could take a few rounds of therapy and time in anger management to deal with your feelings, but contact your local mental health center to find out if there's anger management classes you can attend to begin to deal with your situation so it doesnt escalate into violence. Maybe consider taking some time away from your partner to begin working on yourself so you can be able to focus on what you need to do without too much interruption.
