Question I have newly married just about 10 months. I am happy he is a good guy, his only flaw which now seem to be a big one, is his insecurities/jealousy. Most of my friends are guys and i can understand how he can feel threaten but i work with him about it. I introduce him to them. Make a point to include him. Before he deployed to Iraq(for seven months) i had allot of good friends. But as we got closer to him leaving he basically made me blow them off. He would get upset about me being on my cell phone when people would call me or text me, even if i didn't respond. He would always asks are they more important than me? make me feel really guilty. One time i was visiting him at his barracks in the afternoon, and i went to my car for something. I say a friend and ended up going to her room for a moment i had asked her friend to call my husband and tell him i was with her. When he called he freaked out saying to get back to his room right away. I went back and he was so mad. I wasn't gone but 5 min. We live together now and if i sit down for a second to check my e-mail he gets ancy. Asking me is the Internet more important than me? I feel like i can't do anything. What do i do?
Answer Dear Girl
You help him grow up. You explain to him that he is acting like a six year old child and tell him to stop it. You have to decide whether you love him enough to accept this behavior until he grows up, which may never happen. You live your life the way you want to, and if he doesn't like it then that is his problem. If he won't grow up, then you have to decide whether to leave, because he won't.
