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About Francis Hosein
Expertise
I can answer questions on relationships; marriage, abuse, controlling relationships, successful relationships, codependency, father and daughter relationships, I can answer questions on psychics, mediums, paranormal phenomena.

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relationships, psychic readings, setting goals, meditation, tai chi, therapy, yoga, massage. neuro linguistic programming

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b.a. in psychology, therapist in NLP, degree in chi nei tsang massage. medium for over twenty years. Tai chi teacher for 27 years.

 
   

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Abusive Relationships - Controlling Relationship


Expert: Francis Hosein - 2/29/2008

Question
I have been with a guy who recently came home from jail and I've been with him before he went in. He has two kids and I have none and he 6 years older than me.He doesn't allow me to do anything. Im in debt because of him and
i cant leave him because I have no family and we live together in his mother's house. He at times is verbally abusive and I dont know what to d to get my life back on tract. Since he came home I've been messing up at work. I've flunked out out college when I had only a year to go. Please help and give me suggestions on what to do.

Answer
Hi Danirma,  you need to get away and start over, their are many agencies from the government that can help you.

Trust in you, it will take some time to get back in school and you will.

The same way you are asking for help now show that you have this ability and can change your life around it is not to late.

When you feel you have to settle or that you have no way to turn you get into a rut.

You have options trust in your ability and your talent.

Walk away when he is abusive if you can.

You are not alone and taking a stand for yourself is helping other women to find the strength to break the pattern of abuse.

Be strong and know you are not alone you will get out of this situation.

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