About Francis Hosein Expertise I can answer questions on relationships; marriage, abuse, controlling relationships, successful relationships, codependency, father and daughter relationships,
I can answer questions on psychics, mediums, paranormal phenomena.
Experience relationships, psychic readings, setting goals, meditation, tai chi, therapy, yoga, massage. neuro linguistic programming
Education/Credentials b.a. in psychology, therapist in NLP, degree in chi nei tsang massage.
medium for over twenty years. Tai chi teacher for 27 years.
Question I am desperate I want my relationship to work but don't know how I have
been with him 5 years now have 2 children and depend on him for
everything.But if I don't listen to him or do what he wants me to he becomes
verbally abusive and if is very hurtful I have tried in the past to tell him but he
refuses to change and it is only getting worse I'm in tears now because we
just had a physical fight.he dies not care who is around he has done it front if
my parents, his mother and even my children it stared verbally than pushing,
chocking softly,he now punches me in the stomach,legs arms etcand a few
times in the face but he now chockes me hard to where it is difficult to
breathe bit if I leave him I will have nothing and worse my children will be
away from him they are 5 and 7 DOI really want it to work what do I do if
anything Thank you Desirae
Answer Hi Desirae, It takes courage to break a pattern.
You are so dependent on him you do not see your talent and ability, when you have a chance go to my website and read the article on abusive relationship.
You need to have a plan to get out of this relationship because you are not thinking of the children and what it is doing to them although you do not see it they are hurting.
Show them that their mother is not going to hurt them by putting them through this abuse.
They are growing up with a feeling of hopelessness because the one person who is suppose to be their for them is putting them in difficulties.
In every city their are agencies to help you, take the time to call and move out.
Do you know you are more powerful than him because you have the courage to hold on but it is not helping your children.
Please understand you have nothing right now, you would rather go through suffering with you and the children because you are afraid that you are going to lose, does that make sense.
You will gain more for you and the kids when you leave, you have more talent that you do not see right now.
