About Francis Hosein Expertise I can answer questions on relationships; marriage, abuse, controlling relationships, successful relationships, codependency, father and daughter relationships,
I can answer questions on psychics, mediums, paranormal phenomena.
Experience relationships, psychic readings, setting goals, meditation, tai chi, therapy, yoga, massage. neuro linguistic programming
Education/Credentials b.a. in psychology, therapist in NLP, degree in chi nei tsang massage.
medium for over twenty years. Tai chi teacher for 27 years.
Question my ex and i started out as lovers.we initiated our boyfriend girlfriend reltionship it just didn't work. he wants to be with me when he feels like it.i feel like i'm going crazy.he tells me i can't leave him alone because of our ongoing relationship of five years.he's sexual with other women and doesn't want me with anybody else.he's killing me emotionally how do i ditch him forever when i feel bad and run back to him.
Answer Hi Eya, You are looking for understanding and to make sense of someone abusing you and treating you with no respect.
It is difficult to make sense of it if this person did not grow up with
respect.
You are looking for someone to love you and put you first but you are not doing it for yourself.
It is demanding to break a cycle of being put last or taken for granted.
You can change this and it will be hard to stop and create a new pattern
of behaving.
You are looking in the wrong place for love, you are asking someone to notice you when they do not have this ability.
It is like forcing someone to be different when they are not choosing to do so.
He does not put your relationship first, you need to put you first.
Leaving him may help you to break a pattern of looking for love in all the wrong places.
Good luck, take your time and breathe and know you deserve the best.
