AboutDavid Simonsen Expertise I can answer questions directly related to your challenging relationships. I will give you a straight forward answer to what I think the problem is.
Experience I have the experience needed to help you sort out how to work through your relationship. I meet weekly with people who have challenging relationships so let me help you!
Organizations AAMFT;AACC
Education/Credentials B.A. M.S. Marriage & Family Therapy
Question hi i have been going out with my parner for 4 years in the beginning he was lovely and treated me well now he spends alot of time where he does not speak to me for hours usually when i am not happy about his treatment of me when we go on holiday he will spend 2/3 days not talking to me for no reason ,i have told him i will not be going this year ,i am in the middle of a serious sex abuse case and with alot of help i am now seeing the light at the end of the tunnel and am quite proud to have gotten this far he will not hold me when i cry ,just picks up all his stuff and goes home then sends me lovely texs ? but never says the same things to me in person?he critisise me in work so i have stopped him coming to where i work ,i love him but i am beginning to dislike him at the moment i need his support more than ever this case will be over by june and reliving the past has been very hard i have a very good councellor who has helped me through can you help ? thank you bernadette
Answer Bernadette,
I would suggest since you are seeing a counselor you bring this up to that person. They would know you much better than I. I will say one thing though. Why are you still with a guy like this. He is not treating you well and one could say it is just another form of abuse. That would be the discussion to have...are you scared to leave...do you rely on him too much etc...It does not sound like a healthy relationship where one grows.
David
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