| Subject | Date Asked | Expert |
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| Emotional abuse by Husband | 1/6/2009 | Dana Q |
Q: I have been with my partner four years and now married for five months. He has given me the silent ...
A: It sounds to me like your husband is potentially abusing you. Here are some websites to help you ...
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| emotional abuse | 1/2/2009 | Kriss Mitchell |
Q: I have been in a relationship with a woman with two children; I myself have 2 children. in the two ...
A: One of the things that can be difficult for people to understand if they have never been the victim ...
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| emotional rollercoaster | 1/2/2009 | Nafeesah |
Q: I have been in a relationship with a woman with two children; I myself have 2 children. in the two ...
A: You shouldnt give up your life and happiness, but if this man has been abusive since narcs are ...
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| need help | 1/2/2009 | Nafeesah |
Q: is there a book I can get to help someone deer to me in an abusive relationship to see the patern ...
A: Go on Google and type in signs that someone's in an abusive relationship or what to look for if you ...
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| emotional abuse | 1/1/2009 | Nafeesah |
Q: I have been married for almost ten years and share five children with my husband. We are all being ...
A: Don't be unsure....be sure and leave because if you stay things will not get any better and can even ...
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| emotional rollercoaster | 12/30/2008 | james52144@earthlink.net |
Q: I have been in a relationship with a woman with two children; I myself have 2 children. in the two ...
A: I think the woman has some serious personal issues that if you value your happiness you will cut and ...
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| emotional rollercoaster | 12/30/2008 | Nafeesah |
Q: I have been in a relationship with a woman with two children; I myself have 2 children. in the two ...
A: She just complicated things by involving someone she was once with back in her life. The deal with ...
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| emotional abuse | 12/30/2008 | Kriss Mitchell |
Q: I have been in a relationship with a woman with two children; I myself have 2 children. in the two ...
A: This is certainly a confusing situation and I can see how you might be upset by the mixed signals ...
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| can't get over it. | 12/29/2008 | Nafeesah |
Q: i was in an abusive relationship for 7-8months before getting out of it, i cant seem to get over ...
A: You're dealing with the after affects of an abusive relationship. Your friends should have not told ...
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| Dont know what to do! | 12/29/2008 | Kriss Mitchell |
Q: Iv been with my boyfriend for almost 6 years now. I have been through ALOT with him (specifically ...
A: I appreciate how well you have described your situation. You seem to have a handle on what is going ...
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| sucking a boy's dick | 12/28/2008 | Nafeesah |
Q: .. i'm a girl and i'm 12 years old and i'm in grade 7. i was molested a year ago but i didn't know ...
A: Jessica, Please listen to what I am going to tell you having oral sex with this guy is dangerous ...
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| sucking a boy's dick | 12/28/2008 | james52144@earthlink.net |
Q: .. i'm a girl and i'm 12 years old and i'm in grade 7. i was molested a year ago but i didn't know ...
A: I realize that you don't want to get the babysitter or his boyfriend in trouble, but you have to ...
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| abusive? | 12/28/2008 | David Simonsen |
Q: I am 38, my boyfriend of five months is 35. He can be such a good boyfriend a lot of the time. And ...
A: Sylivia, Dating is about gathering information, not about being desperate. It sounds like you have ...
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| emotional/ mental abuse by an uncle | 12/27/2008 | David Simonsen |
Q: I am a 22year old female who recently lived with my uncle for about 2 years. I wasnt desperately in ...
A: Tara, Unless you specifically say what he did I can't really now if it was abuse. You could talk to ...
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| Emotional abusive ex wants me back and is putting pressure on me | 12/22/2008 | Nafeesah |
Q: My ex husband and I split after 8 years together where he controlled every desicion, undermined and ...
A: Stick to your guns because what you're seeing is a classic case of manipulation since abusive people ...
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| control and affairs | 12/20/2008 | David Simonsen |
Q: I have lived with roger for 9 yers, and throughout that time he is anti social, does not like ...
A: Anne, You need to get some focus in your life and stay away from this guy. I would suggest first ...
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| Is it still worth a try | 12/16/2008 | Dr.Sunu Sundar |
Q: i am 20 years old i have been married to my husband since July 2007. I am from India and so is he, ...
A: Greetings and peace. I very well understand your inner plight. It is painful especially when ...
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| Confused need help! | 12/15/2008 | David Simonsen |
Q: I have been married to for 9 years now and from the very first our marriage has been stormy as my ...
A: Paula, I think you need to seek out a counselor before a lawyer. The problem is this guy and his ...
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| I'm lost. Plz help! | 12/12/2008 | Kriss Mitchell |
Q: my bf & I have been together for two years now. Our relationship started online & we live in ...
A: This must be very difficult for you and I understand how confusing situations like this can be. ...
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| is it abuse? | 12/10/2008 | David Simonsen |
Q: I am 18, my boyfriend is 17. We have been in a relationship for over 2 1/2 years. However, I often ...
A: Suzanne, I have always thought of dating as a way to gather information. When someone gathers enough ...
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| marriage relationship | 12/7/2008 | Kriss Mitchell |
Q: My husband goes from giving me silent treatment and withholding sex from two week, two to four ...
A: I am so glad that you wrote. It takes a lot of courage to begin the process of gathering ...
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| Am I straight or not? | 12/7/2008 | Kriss Mitchell |
Q: Well from your opinion and from what you read,do you think that I am a lesbian?I just need to ...
A: They are telling you the truth. These questions are too serious to be answered by what another ...
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| Am I straight or not? | 12/7/2008 | Kriss Mitchell |
Q: Well from your opinion and from what you read,do you think that I am a lesbian?I just need to ...
A: If you are receiving this information from more than one source, perhaps it is because it is true. ...
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| Am I straight or not? | 12/7/2008 | Kriss Mitchell |
Q: Well from your opinion and from what you read,do you think that I am a lesbian?I just need to ...
A: As I have said before, I am unable to answer that question without seeing you face to face. What I ...
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| Am I now a lesbian? | 12/7/2008 | Kriss Mitchell |
Q: I added some to this question so read all of the way down.- I'm 13.I'm a girl.I feel that I'm ...
A: This question is a very serious question. One that is too important to be answered in a format such ...
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| Am I now a lesbian? | 12/6/2008 | Kriss Mitchell |
Q: I added some to this question so read all of the way down.- I'm 13.I'm a girl.I feel that I'm ...
A: I'm glad that you took the time to write. These are very serious questions for someone your age and ...
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| help | 12/3/2008 | David Simonsen |
Q: will about a a year ago i meet a amazing guy will at the time i thought that the first 6 months ...
A: Kristen, If your story is true, I suggest you seek out the nearest mental hospital and commit ...
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| Im abusive | 12/3/2008 | Nafeesah |
Q: I am a 17 year old gay man. And i have issues BIG ISSUES....I AM NOT CURRENTLY ABUSIVE. but i was ...
A: Yes it's possible to stop what you're doing, but it could take a few rounds of therapy and time in ...
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| Relationship | 12/1/2008 | james52144@earthlink.net |
Q: I have newly married just about 10 months. I am happy he is a good guy, his only flaw which now seem ...
A: You help him grow up. You explain to him that he is acting like a six year old child and tell him to ...
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| 6 months on | 11/29/2008 | David Simonsen |
Q: With your advice, I managed to make the decision to leave and get on with my life. I went travelling ...
A: K, You are starting to get caught up in the dance with him again. You are telling yourself you can ...
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| How Can I Do? | 11/28/2008 | Azure |
Q: im 18 years old and i have been with my boyfriend for three years. i had his child when i was a ...
A: why are you still with him, and don't tell me it's "love", because then the question is, what is the ...
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| am i in an abusive relationship | 11/25/2008 | David Simonsen |
Q: i am 20 years old i have been dating my boyfriend for 2 years i moved in with him after one year ...
A: Miki, You simply went from one abusive place to another. Forget about your feelings, they will not ...
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| beginning of abuse? | 11/25/2008 | Nafeesah |
Q: My boyfriend I have been together 3 years in December. Everything was perfect until I cheated on ...
A: He's angry because you cheated on him, but he should express his feelings differently other than to ...
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| Feeling Useless | 11/23/2008 | David Simonsen |
Q: my name is Amay I am 26 and from northern Canada... I have two children ages 5 and 7... I have been ...
A: Amay, You need to call up your family and let them know that foolish choice you have made. Apologize ...
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| drugs | 11/22/2008 | David Simonsen |
Q: How do end my relationship with my boyfriend who I helped quit using drugs ?? I still love him but ...
A: Tiffany, You are not the cause of someone using. It is up to him to make the choice to use or not. ...
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| Husband Hurt Me | 11/22/2008 | james52144@earthlink.net |
Q: I have been married for 15 years. My husband and I have four kids. We had an arguement a week ago ...
A: If you want to have independence, you will need to support yourself. That is a good thing. I would ...
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| emotionally abusive? | 11/19/2008 | Dana Q |
Q: I've been in a relationship with my boyfriend for a little over 6 months now. When we first started ...
A: Your boyfriend is showing the classic signs of emotional abuse. Isolating you from your friends, ...
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| abusive boyfriend | 11/18/2008 | Dana Q |
Q: me and my boyfriend have been dating for a year now. for about 6 months everything was great besides ...
A: No, this is absolutely not your fault. Your boyfriend is abusing you and abuse is never the ...
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| what is wrong with me? | 11/17/2008 | james52144@earthlink.net |
Q: I have been married for 25 yrs. I have been unhappy for along time. My husband used to drink, go out ...
A: why does there have to be something wrong with you? It sounds to me like you don't love him anymore, ...
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| so tired! | 11/17/2008 | Nafeesah |
Q: i love my husband so much, i left everything i had, my career, my country, my friends family. i ...
A: You would rather be single than mistreated by someone and you would rather be single than to see ...
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