About Francis Hosein Expertise I can answer questions on relationships; marriage, abuse, controlling relationships, successful relationships, codependency, father and daughter relationships,
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Education/Credentials b.a. in psychology, therapist in NLP, degree in chi nei tsang massage.
medium for over twenty years. Tai chi teacher for 27 years.
Expert: Francis Hosein Date: 3/10/2008 Subject: so confused
Question Hey! I'm 24 years old and have been seeing my boyfriend for 3 years off and on. At first things were great! Of course they always are! Then slowly he would tell little lies! Then about a year into our relationship he lied to me about this girl he had worked with. He had taken a picture of her up her skirt and lied to me about it until i found out then he confessed. I forgave that, then about a year after that he said some very harsh words to me like "fuck you" "your fucking up my life" must I say he was drunk when saying this. The next day he apologized over the phone! Which i wanted one in person but he didn't really want to and said he would call me later. Never did! Till a week and a half later! That same day he told me he would call me back, a few hours later went to hookup with a girl because he said that he thought we wouldn't get back together after what he had said to me. Ok, so i forgave that! Now its like he just doesn't care. When im sick he rather go play poker then come spend time with me. I just don't get it??? Its like hes too into himself and forgot about me. Thats how I feel at least! He has a very short temper as well, so its hard to talk to him without him yelling.And a slight drinking problem. Its gotten better though. Your opinion is greatly appreciated! Thank you!
Answer Hi Kathleen, You are not the important person in his life.
He is not choosing you first he is choosing himself and it does not show that he wants a commitment with you.
Why are you hanging around hoping he will notice you or want to have a good relationship?
It is as if you are waiting for someone to appreciate you and that starts with you with you.
You deserve better and the universe and your unconscious cannot bring this to you if you are not align with this thinking and acting.
Loving you first to say I rather be alone for a time than to be dependent on another for love or for you self worth.
I do not know you and yet I know you deserve the best because this is what God wants for you and it start with you.
It will get better when you take the step to create a new behavior.
Success is for sure.
