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About Francis Hosein
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I can answer questions on relationships; marriage, abuse, controlling relationships, successful relationships, codependency, father and daughter relationships, I can answer questions on psychics, mediums, paranormal phenomena.

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relationships, psychic readings, setting goals, meditation, tai chi, therapy, yoga, massage. neuro linguistic programming

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b.a. in psychology, therapist in NLP, degree in chi nei tsang massage. medium for over twenty years. Tai chi teacher for 27 years.

 
   

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Topic: Abusive Relationships



Expert: Francis Hosein
Date: 3/11/2008
Subject: my cousin

Question
My cousin is in a abusive relationship with her boyfriend. SHe has a one year old baby girl and she does not need to hear all of that. Plus the boyfreind is not the baby's father. But my family and I have tried to talk to her but she says she loves him. She needs help on how to get government help to get her and the baby out of the house. I know there is some kind of agency where they will help her get a apt. , work, etc. she needs that. But i'm afraid if she stays in the relationship she will end up dead somewhere. Please help me help her

Answer
Hi Jennifer, You cannot change another until they are ready to do so.

What you can do is bring your cousin to different situation so she can see another way people are acting with each other in a loving relationship.

You can talk but it will not make a change and going place to see reality with other relationship does work.

A picture is worth a thousand words, show her another way of life.

You can call government agencies and have this ready for when she is ready to make that change.

Support is need from you, to listen and not criticize her boyfriend let her get to that understanding and make that choice.

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