About Francis Hosein Expertise I can answer questions on relationships; marriage, abuse, controlling relationships, successful relationships, codependency, father and daughter relationships,
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Education/Credentials b.a. in psychology, therapist in NLP, degree in chi nei tsang massage.
medium for over twenty years. Tai chi teacher for 27 years.
Question my daughter age 18 & 8 months pregnant. her boyfriend is 25 and is an alcoholic and does prescription drugs always gets mad at her blames her for the way he feels. she is always at home alone gets mad when she comes to visit us he is now telling her that if my husband and i don't stop smoking in our home not theirs that the baby will not be aloud here. we would never smoke around the baby but he is very manipulating he has to be in control they have just moved about 4 minutes away from us we went over yesterday to check up on her and the apartment door was left hope and she was in the kitchen on the floor crying and picking up the mess on the floor because got mad at her furor whatever reason and threw things around, a cup full change her portable dvd player he has never laid a finger on her but is really verbally abusive.my daughter and i cleaned the place up yesterday prior to this we were on our hands and knees scrubbing the floors, he likes to call the shots what can i do without hurting my daughter and her unborned baby girl. Im afraid he may be the type to snap. desparate mom& grandma to be.
Answer Hi Carol, The most difficult thing is to see our children hurting and you feel like your hands are tied and you cannot do anything about it.
You have to wait until your daughter chooses to make that step to leave or ask for help otherwise she may feel you want to break them up and may resent you for this.
In the meantime you can be very supportive to your daughter.
Reassuring her that you are their for her and do not say thing about her boyfriend allow her to do so.
Your job is to be supportive and listen and until she decides to make that step to leave him.
You can start looking for way you can help her get her strength, take her out to places and friend so she can see other people behaving differently that will help her to make her decision.
You can pray for her, you can send her love and cover her with a light to protect her and you can ask God to protect her and the baby.
