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Education/Credentials b.a. in psychology, therapist in NLP, degree in chi nei tsang massage.
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Expert: Francis Hosein Date: 3/26/2008 Subject: grown dauther
Question Ok here it gos, my stepdauther is 25. about 3 years ago married a guy in jail which she knew during high school, we were not happy about this but eveyone makes a mistake, and welcome him, before she go married she had a boy from another guy she knew in high school, her husbind got out and they move into her apartment, come to find out hes been in and out of jail for the past 7 years, she was happy and taking care of her self until he came into her life, she has lost her apartment, car and job, he did get out a year ago or so and they moved into a house paid by his mother, come to find out the mother gives him money for everything, she now has two kids from him as well he has just went back into jail, my dauther moved back with my wife and myself, she gets very mad anytime we say anything about him, we are scard of him and dont trust him. we try to explane to her but we think when he gets out again she will run back to him. he tells her he cant get a job and for her to go to work and he will stay home with the kids, hes back in for drugs and stealing, his mother wont help our dauther as hes not around, but she talks to his mother when were not around, we think the mother is tire of taking care of her son and wants our dauther to take over, we love her and the kids and want the best for her, but tell her she should get rid of him as he not the only one out there. today my wife asked her what her plans were and it turned into a agurument and my dauther took off to a hotel. I/we have 2 girls and 2 boys and at one time or another help them all. we worry about the grandkids and her. what should we do? Help Please
Answer Hi Gerald, your job is to support her until she is willing to hear what you have to say.
She would like to feel that you are their for her and that you do not tell her what to do because if she did she would of ask a long time ago.
She is attempting to live her life and make her mistakes, and although you have the best intention for her she is not ready to listen.
Your job as parents is to listen and support until she is ready to open and she what she is going through and know that she will not be judge or be told what to do.
She wants to be taken as an adult and not someones daughter.
It will change is you give her room to express herself.
God Bless.
